Currently pregnant with our 3rd child (2nd pregnancy in less than 2 years-if that's relevant), and feeling very despondent about my marriage. Our 2nd child was born a year ago - we'd talked about getting married before we were pregnant but he wasn't as keen as I was. However, as the pregnancy progressed he changed his views - we decided to marry once baby was born. Here's the thing - he never proposed- some might say that it's not a big deal - we were living together, had 2 children, etc, (I agree) problem is I really struggle with it. He knows how much I wanted and needed him to propose to me - there was ample opportunity, christmas, valentines day, my birthday even the birth of the baby - he knew how much it hurt - I cried many times. The problem now is I find I question my self worth 'does this man really love me like I love him' - I gave up a career that I studied at uni for 6 years for, moved county, etc to be a mother, wife and housewife.
2007-03-21
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Amanda C
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Marriage & Divorce