i have a partner i have been with for 3 yrs, i have a 8yr old daughter who he interacts with very well and is involved with- homework, playing games, occasional disipline pretty much already a father figure. he says he isn't ready to move in or anything because he isn't ready to commit to a child, if it was just me i know things would be different as he has told me-but it's not. i know he doesn't want to give up his freedom, but i know he loves me very much and is 100% faithfull, we are very good friends as well. and enjoy being around each other, and both nearly in our 30's. i know if we broke up we would still be friends as we get on so well, but i feel ready to move forward in the relationship and settle down, do you think he is just using my daughter as an excuse not to commit or should i give him some more time to sort out what he wants from his life and me and if so what is reasonable??? i need real answers please from well balanced men.....your help would be appreciated!
2007-02-27
01:36:31
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