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I am so very sorry you are feeling this way. I know how horrible it can be, as I used to be this way as well. There are good things about you. Everyone has good things about them. You need to realize what your good qualities are and focus on those, not the negative. Sit down in a quiet place. Think positive thoughts. Think of the things you have over come in your life, and the good things you have done. Don't let the negative thoughts come in. Go out somewhere. The book store, the gym, church, even a bar at a nice restaurant. Hey, you don't have to drink, go watch a sports game! Get your face seen and eventually those people you see over and over will come to know you. What are your interests? See a psycologist and they can offere suggestions.

Not matter what has happened, or what IS happening, things change eventually. You have to take an active part in chaning your life and making it better. Things won't just come to you because you want it. You have to MAKE things change.

2007-02-27 02:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0 0

Well I think you should sit back and think about situations in your life where you did have someone and what happened to end it...

it could be a friend, a partner, a parent, a sibling...

are you depressed with your self image or just that you feel alone?

I think a for sure step would be to seek some professional help..

everyone gets in their down times but writing in a journal always helped me through tough times..I grew up in a very abusive family and continued that many years with relationships but finally one day I started writing and realized that I love myself...and after I loved myself and respected myself I treated others so much differently.

2007-02-27 01:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by colie 3 · 0 0

I have struggled with the same thing. I dropped out of high school my junior year and got my GED. It seemed like all my friends just left me after that. They never called or asked to go places with them and it really hurt...almost like I wasnt good enough for the...and I couldnt get a date either...I didnt know what was wrong with me in that deparment...but anyways, its been 3 years now and I just now started making friends again and reuniting with some of the old ones. The problem was me...I just didnt have enough confidence and self esteem in myself...now Im slowly but surely building both and God is blessing me with friends as I do so. I hope that helps you at least a little. Just remember that there is nothing wrong with you.Your in my prayers I know you feel lonely but your not.

2007-02-27 01:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I used to feel like that. I was always the quiet person who didn't speak unless I was spoken to. Eventually I found a my "click" of friends and have stayed good friends with the most of them. I know in my area we have meetings for singles and for people who want to just get together and meet as a group to make friends. Joining a group activity will do you wonders. Try contacting your town hall and places like that to see if they have a schedule of such events. If not seek the help of a help group who could better help you get involved at your own speed. Best of luck. Feel free to contact me via messenger if you wish to chat further. pq4u72 is my ID and I am female.

2007-02-27 01:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0 0

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I do have to tell you that you NEED to seek out people who have similar interests as you do. NO matter how hard, painful, embarrassing, etc it is you HAVE to share yourself. What this means is that you have to share something (something you like, something that embarrasses you, something that's funny to you, something you don't like....WHATEVER, etc). That's the only way you will be able to make connections with someone and trust me having a group in which you feel you belong, connecting with someone is a basic NEED of humans. Please, PLEASE, find some connections in your life. It WILL be hard. You WILL have rejections. I CHALLENGE you to get 70 REJECTIONS in 2 days. Just ask some people if they have a particular interest as you and ask to meet (somewhere public) to discuss, watch, participate in,etc your common interest. Unless you have those rejections you will not find the place where you belong.

2007-02-27 01:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by mset 2 · 0 0

See a doctor...... call 911 if you have any suicidal thoughts. There is help out there just make sure to see your family doctor.

2007-02-27 01:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0 0

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2016-11-26 01:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Find friends online its possible

2007-02-27 01:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Help 1 · 0 0

everyone has some depresion sometimes, are you faceing some problems or worries? maybe your depression is contagious and people dont wanna be around it..

2007-02-27 01:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0 0

If you call a councelor, they will provide information for the right path to follow.

Go to church, and talk to God, he will always listen.

2007-02-27 01:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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