i'm 18 and engaged. Sure like any normal couple we've argued. we've made love. we've cried and laughed. We are young, lively and full of love that we share towards one another. We are both old fashioned. We believe the woman should cook and clean and take care of her husband and children. And that the man should take care of the finances and his dependants needs. All we have been recieving are negative thoughts. People don't think that they have to fight for a relationship sometimes. they expect to go into a relationship and it be a breeze. Everything just flows. How often does that happen in a marriage? if ever. Learning to make sacrifices, knowing how much to give and how much to take. And finally realizing that life is what you make of it. that is the key. in my opinion. I'm past the infatuation stage, it's past just being in love, i see flaws, but nothing i would change. It's learning to love someone for them and never expecting more.
2007-02-27
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