It took me a while to accept, but I really think my gf has some serious unresolved issues that are going to take some pro. help. Being in a relationship w/ her has taken its toll on me now, too. I have got an appointment set for ME now next week, but really (and I am very serious) want her to go at some point if, for no other reason, because she is never going to be happy w/ me or anyone else until she takes care of whatever this is (and I think it's pretty heavy stuff). Any advice?
Before anyone asks or suggests, yes, we have talked and she is VERY closed about this stuff. I let it go for a while and tried to let her "come to me" and now all she can do is pull me close then push me away. She might hate me for this, but I care enough about her not to care if she does. She needs a new perspective on things and I've given up on the idea she can do that herself.
And please be nice. This is, unfortunately, a serious question.
2007-01-03
15:09:22
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randyken
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Mental Health