My friend Kay (who's married), is shagging my other friend Joe (who's also married with 2 kids). Kay confided in me sharing the affair & her "love" for Joe. I didn't agree with it, so told her... yet she accused me of being a bad friend because i didn't say i thought it was ok. She proceeded to call me bad for not being FLATTERED that she told me!!
Am i in the wrong? I have told her i don't agree with it, and i think it will end in disaster,but i haven't stopped socialising with her, and equally haven't been nasty.
Do i tell her husband, or Joe's wife (i'm friends with both?) The kids are getting hurt too.
Should i walk away, or keep putting up with abusive just because i didn't welcome what she told me with open arms? Am i bad? Not to mention that Kay's turned her husband against ME, when she is the one having the affair! It's increasingly frustrating when he is castigating me, when he's oblivious to it all. Kay's husband is best mates with Joe! Why should i suffer??
2006-12-24
03:41:34
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lil_els2000
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Marriage & Divorce