when I talk in the public, my voice changing and i sweat...
and i can't say all i want to say.
2006-12-24 03:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by John 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It takes a lot of confidence be a good public speaker. The best way to build confidence is practice. Start small, you don't have to say everything you want to say in a very elegant manner, but as you get better at it, speaking to crowds or gatherings WILL become easier, I guarantee.
2006-12-24 03:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is, in many ways, a normal reaction to public speaking. In fact, USA Today did a study years ago which found that death is only the second scariest experience for most people; public speaking ranks first!
The easiest way to overcome this is to choose two or three friendly-looking people in the audience and speak directly to them. Be sure to jot down a list of ideas you wish to cover and refer to your list throughout. Speak as if you were talking to a friend - be natural. If your voice changes, smile about it; it happens to most of us. As for the sweating, that will diminish as you become more used to such situations.
Tell yourself that you will enjoy what you're doing, and you probably will. Remember that courage is defined not as a lack of fear but going ahead in spite of the fear.
Be courageous!
2006-12-24 12:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by MomBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not picture everyone in there underware, because you will get an erection. Then were will you be a voice changing sweating guy with an erection. Stair at a spot in the middle of the room and go for it.
2006-12-27 13:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to overcome your discomfort, and become a good, if not terrific public speaker, check with your local college, and take a public speaking course.
2006-12-24 12:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine you , as you look in the mirror, as the only one in charge of YOU. nobody.....NOBODY else is in control, and ..the thoughts of how you look to others simply have you giving up this soul ownership to your self control. simple change ...very simple. this is a two way street, that is in They must wonder what they look like to you. it's an art of words and what matters is the show of wisdom that you don't have to give to those you choose to be unworthy or the show of what ever is being called for. a friend will see you as friend IF he is in your mind seen as that let them do the worry as to what they look like to you 180 degree change in GAME can be whe reason most likely. your standing in the wrong shoes per say, looking at you as one of them Hope im in the ball park at least lol demand to see there eyes let them see you looking deep into them for confirmation to what you have said Do it as though you are going to single them out any minute and put them in the spotlight
2006-12-24 12:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's nothing new. Almost everybody has that problem. Just try to be relax, think about something nice. There is no reason for you to act like that. Think about it.
2006-12-24 11:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Lionsgate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've got a deputy Prime minister like that
2006-12-24 13:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to know how to make a correct sentence and it sounds like you need a bit more practice with that.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 12:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bleaarg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by talking in mirror then in front of you family or friends and gradually everybody think everyone as they are your brothers and sisters.
2006-12-24 11:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by dhiren_bullseye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have notes & picture everyone in the audience in their underwear.
2006-12-24 11:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋