I met a guy about a month ago and things have been going great. I have no complaints at all. He does get upset about issues that he is going through that have nothing to do with me and completely shuts down, doesn’t want to talk, etc. I have overlooked that. Everyone deals with their issues in their own way. When we met, he told me that he was hurt really bad by his ex and that is hard for him to trust someone and put his guard down. All of that is understandable. Over the past week, things have gone from hot, to completely cold. He calls but I can sense that something is wrong. So I asked him what was up and why was he different. He begins to tell me again that he was hurt very badly and that he will never trust me completely and he may never put his guard down. I told him that it wasn’t fair for me to have to pay for someone else’s mistakes and that he should let me make my own mistakes or accomplishments with him. I told him he has too many rules and he replied that its his life and he refuses to let someone hurt him again. I have been hurt before but I give everyone a chance to show me what they are about. Am I wrong to be upset about this? Does anyone think he is right or wrong? Also please advise me on what my next step should be.
2006-11-13
01:07:24
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vivian M
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