Why does it have to be this way?
There's a guy that I have liked for a few years now. Before that, we were friends for six years. He's been divorced since early Feb. He use to flirt with me and say things to me like "It doesn't take a brain surgeon to see how much I want to be with you." I told him I liked him. Now he won't go out on a date. He feels uncomfortable being in a room, alone with me. It's one thing to not be into someone. But to say some of things he has said and then totally back off...I just don't get it. I know he's not at all ready for a committment, but why won't he go out on an ocassional date with me? I have left him alone so he could sort out his thoughts. Then we start talking again. He opens up a little bit more then he shuts right down. I'm totally baffled. Any thoughts?
2006-11-13
01:08:51
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