me and this guy have been talking and other things now for 2 months. he unlike anyone i have ever been with the way he makes me feel i have never had that before. everything has been going pretty well until last night. he left did not say goodbye or look at me. i tried to call him all night he would not answer. he came home at 12am and was making alot of noise upstairs thats where he lives. i woke up turned on my lights and he called me asked me to come outside where he handed me my cell phone back and said thank you and went back upstairs he did not even look me in the face. i have no idea what i did or what i said or didn't do or say i tried to call him last night and this morning but he wont answer my calls. i let my heart out to him and i feel so hurt. i dont know if he really felt the same way all along. it felt so right to me i dont know what to do but i want an explanation. what should i do?
2006-11-13 01:10:41 · 7 answers · asked by luv2xlr8_75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There has to be a reason that he's acting like that. Try to re-think that entire night over in your mind, and think about what was going on when you started to notice his mood change. You can probably figure it out if you think hard enough. He is trying to send you a clear message that he is angry at you by not saying goodbye or looking at you. Then he calls you really late to give you back your cell phone-- he could have waited till a descent hour the next morning to give it back, but he wanted one last contact with you before the night was over.
Another thing that I would mention is that most men are going to become VERY irritated if you call them all night long. He needs some time to calm down, and you need to be cool and collected about the whole thing. Don't give the appearance that you are freaking out. Just call him as much as you normally would and when you talk to him don't bring it up. Just leave it alone. If this goes on for more than 2 days, then I would ask him what's wrong. Hopefully by then he will be over it or will be willing to talk about it with you.
2006-11-13 01:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by victoryedge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is confused about what kind of relationship you guys had maybe he didnt feel the same way about u that u felt about him. I think that it would be best it both of you just take some time from each other
2006-11-13 01:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyboo08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 1 else can answer U except this guy..there must be a reason he did this. U should try to talk to him till he talks to u .
2006-11-13 01:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you told him how you feel and he rejected you
he did not have the courage to tell you why which is very disappointing --- i suggest move on --- he does not want even a friendship --- im very sorry for you
2006-11-13 01:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he apparently wants to be left alone, try him in a week again, and if you get no luck then just leave him be and move on.
2006-11-13 01:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a few days, then try to talk to him again
2006-11-13 01:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by amandamartin49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's over, move on
2006-11-13 01:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋