I believe that I am getting all the "signs" from her, yesterday her mother asked my to come over for lunch, and again yesterday I asked her to go to see a movie. She said definately which is a good thing. I think we are taking the precautionary baby steps of a relationship. My question is, when would be the best time to let her know that I am ready to take the next step in the relationship? I just don't want to take too long and run the risk of something not happening. Do you think I should do that before the movie or after?
- I have been told to do if after, so I just wanted to get a feel for what you all thought. Thank you very much!
2006-11-13 01:06:58 · 11 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probably waiting for you to make a move, probably wondering what is taking you so long. If she has agreed to a date and you have visited with the parents then it is safe to move forward.
2006-11-13 01:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by lovinlife_30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her before the movie, she won't be able to concentrate on the film, will sit there in the dark thinking about what you said and it could be a very awkward 2 hours.
Tell her afterwards and like somebody else said, atleast if she doesn't feel the same as you she would have had a nice time anyway.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 09:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. see how she reacts when you put your arm around her at the movies. or just ask how she feels about going to the next step. you are wise not to go to fast and become friends first. If her mom approves of you then you stand a good chance, she has obviously been talking about you to her. if she says she wants to wait a little longer then don't push but don't let it go to much longer either.
2006-11-13 09:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it after the movie, that way, if she is not interested in it you still had a fun time with her. I think she would really like it though.
2006-11-13 09:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends, whawt is the next step to you?
Whatever it may be should definitely be after the movie though.
2006-11-13 09:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first take a time ,, this relation need time,, do 1thing express ur felling after movie of after 2 or 3 more meetings
2006-11-13 09:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by john d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is from Jordan+Me...if you tell her after the movie..then she doesnt ya know like it...then it will ruin the whole thing...but tell her before the movie that way she has time to adjust to the fact that your into her....GoOd LuCk!!
2006-11-13 09:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you two have been dating , but go ahead if you feel that its the right time to do so.
2006-11-13 09:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after Movie is the best time.
when u both feel free.& light
2006-11-13 09:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by arvind v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After!! You are so nice!!! Good luck
2006-11-13 09:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋