My bf and I have a very satisfying sex life. There is something tho, that I feel like it might be my fault. It is very hard for him to get an erection sometime and when he does it usually doesn't stick around too long...I'm not worried about my satisfaction as he is amazing with other things, but I worry that I may not be doing stuff or I'm the reason he stays soft. I give him head 98% of the time and play with it...but it still goes soft...Is there something else I can do? Is he satisfied? He doesn't ever complain...or ask for anything more...
2006-11-13 01:07:16 · 8 answers · asked by violet1656 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you are not doing anything wrong! AND I give you total credit for being so mature about this as many women get angry & blame their guy. I am sure he appreciates how hard you are trying :)
Hopefully you guys love each other enough that this will not be a huge factor in your relationship, but if you guys are a serious couple and plan a future together, than maybe he could see dr.
i think you've got good thing going with this guy, and he's lucky to have you :)
2006-11-13 01:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't keep an erection then either you are trying to have sex for 10 hours a day which is too much, or you are trying to get someone to email you about drugs.
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2006-11-13 01:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not to make you think bad of him and i apologize ahead of time if i am wrong.... but alot of times when this happens, with men and women, when the person cannot get excited it's bc there is someone else. whether they're with them or not. he could be cheating or he could just be thinking of someone else.
OR, how old is he. even if he's in his mid twenties, he could have problems with getting an erection. talk it over and get to the core of the problem. like i said i apologize if he's not cheating and i've got you thinking about it. it is one reason. but i would also talk to him about seeing a doctor for erectile disfunction
2006-11-13 01:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should see a doctor. It may be a health problem.
2006-11-13 01:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not ur fault let him see a doctor
2006-11-13 01:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety one of two things....
he's getting it elsewhere or he has a health problem!!!
either way it's not you!!!!
2006-11-13 01:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to the doctor, it sounds like he needs VIAGRA!!!!! I am not joking..............
2006-11-13 01:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh.
Cuz he like it.
2006-11-13 01:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋