I am the only girl of 4 children. My mother LOVES her screwed up sons, but hates me.
I am 24 and have made a good life for myself, I was a really good kid and never got into trouble!
She invites me over and then tries to fight with me about stupid stuff (like my brother’s alcoholism, things that happened when I was a kid that she says never happened, my husband and I planning our first child!)
I end up telling her I need to go home because her arguments escalate and she won’t let it go until she wins!
She was verbally abusive to me as a kid, it took a year of counseling to accept that my mother doesn’t treat me with respect or love.
I have come to terms with the fact that she will not change, and although I love her because she is my mother, I do not like her as a person.
I honestly never want to see her face again.
I am a happy person, but when I see her I am miserable and end up leaving her house looking and feeling like the bad guy.
What do I do?
2006-10-02
07:46:09
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