MY WIFE AND I HAD A TYPICAL MARRIAGE, AND WERE HAPPY(I THOUGHT) A YEAR AGO ON OUR 18TH ANNIVERSARY SHE TOLD ME SHE WAS LEAVING, SHE MOVED IN WITH A"GIRL" HALF HER AGE, I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HER AND HAVE MET HER ONCE. OUR BOYS LIVE WITH ME,SHE HAS A WHOLE NEW LIFE , NEW FRIENDS, AND DOESN'T EVEN WANT TO TRY TO WORK THINGS OUT, SHE WAS A LOVING MOTHER AND WIFE, SHE BARELY EVEN CALLS HOME ANYMORE, AND ONLY TALKS TO HER BOYS ONCE OR TWICE A MONTH. WE ARE IN DANGER OF LOSING OUR HOME, AND I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING TO GET HER TO SEE WHAT A MISTAKE SHE IS MAKING. SHE HAD A BOOB JOB 1 YR BEFORE SHE LEFT, NOW SHE RUNS WIYH THE 20 SOMETHING CROWD, SHE IS 39 HER ROOMMATE IS 22. WE HAVE 2 BOYS 19 & 17, I LOVE HER AND ALWAYS HAVE. SHE HAS STEADFASTLY DENIED ANY AFFAIR, WE HAVE NOT HAD SEX SINCE SHE LEFT. I AM NOT STUPID BUT I WANT TO BELIEVE HER BUT I DON'T.I'M DESPERATELY, AND HOPLESSLY LOST TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO A ONCE SENSIBLE WOMAN, TO JUST UP AND LEAVE HER ENTIRE LIFE, WHY AND HOW?
2006-09-12
21:38:43
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colesscamaro
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Marriage & Divorce