I have lost my wife of 24 years because I now know I failed to meet her needs. I know now how crazy it has been to raise our six kids and me. She needed to bail and now I can understand why only after going throuh it for the past three months alone. I still love her but cann't reach her emotionally. I know that if I can show her I understand, she may fall in love with me again. I want to learn what I can do. I want to be her man again. I have been the provider and protecter but not the man she needs emotionally. I am 44 and want to start over with her. What can I do that would start this process? I am serious and would like to change because she is worth it. As a man I was blind to her needs, what she really needs, not what the world tells a man but what a woman wants to tell a man. Help! I am ready to do for her. I do not want to just change and let my change be benefited by another, I want her (my wife) to have all I can give. Thanks ahead of time for being helpfully candid.
2006-09-12
22:49:48
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james.ampmerch
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Marriage & Divorce