I have been with my man for 6.5 years. His daughter is 7, we recently got custody of her because her mom is a drug addict and is now in prison. We always spent time with her growing up but now more and more she is getting on my nerves; that she is around all the time and bugging and comes to me rather than her dad for everything, she doesnt listen, has no respect, no common sense. Him and I talk about it but it is hard when we have only had her a year. I will not discipline her because she is not mine. Mainly if she was my kid, she would not be the way she is because she would've been raised differently. I want to be able to love her and be a good role model for her, and accept her for who and what she is, but it is so hard when I know that she was conceived by someone that is so sickening.
She is not mine. Should him and I have a child of our own as well, or do we just try to fix her and give her the family environment she always needed and if so HOW DO I DO IT AND KEEP MY SANITY!
2006-07-07
13:54:53
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