I tried to come out of the closet when I was in high school, but I got a bad reaction so I told everyone I was bi, because, at least to my parents, that was more acceptable. Why, I don't know. But after 3-4 years of doing that, earlier this year, I lost all attraction to men period so I came out as a full lesbian. And I have been happy with myself, I have no regrets, no inner struggles-except one. I still sometimes find myself attracted to men. Not enough to want to have sex with a man ever again, but close enough to it, and it worries me. I never understood being bi. Not that anything's wrong with it, but I always thought one day I would be one or the other. I feel like if I like a guy, or have sex with a guy, am I betraying my lesbianism? Is it okay to just be bi? I'm struggling horribly with myself.I am looking for honest, mature answers only. All religious bigots will be reported, and their answers will remain unanswered and you will have wasted your time and finger strength.
2006-07-05
18:11:32
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Agent Double EL
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender