I always here about how kids raised by gay parents will be "confused" or "messed up."
Well, I find that hard to believe. A child adopted by gay parents who want a child more than anything would be much better off than a child raised by, say, a teenage mom who used her pregnancy to guilt her boyfriend into marrying her, causing resentment.
These days, we have way too few of the former, loving families who want children, and way too many of the latter, abusive families who hurt children. The fact is that so many children are living in abusive homes or stagnating in the adoption system because there just aren't enough eligible straight couples to adopt them all. Why not allow gay couples to adopt? They wouldn't be able to give every kid a home, but they'd help. And we need more loving families. The stuff about how they might molest the kid is bs. Most pedophiles are straight men. And if a child is in an open environment from the beginning, they won't grow up "confused."
2007-09-29
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