With physical pain, normal human beings can differentiate between safety and danger. Our lives are preserved by instinct. Emotions, too, can protect us from danger. Adrenaline, as well as other bodily chemicals, is released in response to short-term stress, and this allows one to respond to emergencies with quick-witted efficiency. Emotional PAIN (grief, melancholy, sadness, etc.), however, does not preserve life. It only slows down human progress. In fact, it destroys life in many cases. Do you REALLY need to feel sad when a friend or family member dies? Will it bring him/her back? No. Therefore crying/grieving is not productive. Of course, you have the argument that emotional pain can protect you in a relationship, like if your spouse betrays you, you will be more cautious about making committments. Well, logic and common sense can help just as much if not more. What is your thought on this?
2007-02-18
09:54:20
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