My Catholic mother and Catholic wife will bring my body to a Church, where over my dead body a priest will tell friends and family, "Sean was a loving devoted husband, who loved and served the Lord God, and he was terrificly smart, using all the gifts God gave him".
Will the truth of me die and dissappear? No more jim darwin on yahoo answers. No more me at my job.
Why can't we just say the truth at funerals? "Sean struggled to believe in God, he had many faults, he had hair on his bottom and smelled funny when he ate taco bell, he liked a lot of women, he couldn't concentrate all the time, and despite his agnosticism, he had a heart of Gold."
Why is every Eulogy essentially a pep ralley for goodness, and not the saying good bye to who the man or woman really was and tried to be, and failed every day to be who they wanted.
2006-08-24
08:38:35
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