This just happened to me few minutes ago. The lady is religious, so she and her husband do not work (but do praying), neither search any work. They have 12 children, and the whole family lives on social support. Now what's the problem? She came on my door, telling me how poor they are, they have 12 kids and they are hungry, and she asked for some money. My neighbour who understands this native language, told her to get away and she left. I was latter by translation told what she wanted. I feel puzzled now. There are at least two sides. 1 - Children are Your responsibility, so have them as many you can afford and no more (that is why I at 28 do not yet have them), otherwise - adoption, 2 - Children are not guilty, but hungry and do not understand. So what to do? How to decide? Next time to give her money and she will come for more (I am student with scholarship in foreign country) or be rude as my neighbour and tell her to get away (don't feel like to do so)?
2006-10-24
00:32:14
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