I will have to make a short "thank you for attending" speech at my forthcoming 40th Party. You'd think that someone approaching 40 would have more confidence but no... can anyone help me overcome this with some ideas? Thanks to all you confident people.
2006-10-24 01:17:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
First off, be yourself and be true about how you feel and what you say - they will know you are genuine and you will be more relaxed saying it.
You want to let them know how much it means to you to have them there to help you celebrate, so maybe something along the lines of:
" I am very honored to have you all here and really appreciate you taking the time out of your busy day to be here to help me celebrate my birthday. Today is a day I will always remember because of your kindness and friendship ".
Simple, but effective and it says enough to let people know you appreciate them being there.
I hope this helps - and HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!
2006-10-24 02:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god, a month a go i read the Eulogy at my grandmothers funeral, god... was i nervous. But i am generally a confidant person, and i preform well despite getting the jitters.
However, having done a large amount of public speaking, you get at ease infront of a crowd after a while.
My suggestion for you, whenever you are making a thank you speech, a welcome speech, a memorial speech, or anything to that effect, start with a joke. Nothing vulgar, just funny, something you think will make your friends and family laugh, since youre turning 40, make a crack about your age, make everyone laugh, and the minute they do, you will feel a million times more comfortable up there.
In the mean time, what i do, is i practice it a few days before, dont touch it the day before or the day of, its like a test, if you cram, you get more nervous, and just breathe and focus. Tell yourself its going to rock thier pants off, and prove to them, with your funny, smart, speech, that youre turning 40 with grace and style.
2006-10-24 01:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DId you know that speaking in front of a group is at the top of most people's list???
I used to do it for a living, love it, and miss it! Here's what you do.
Just speak from the heart. Put together your thoughts and jot them down on paper. Go over it a few times and practice in front of a mirror. Don't memorize it, because you may forget all or some of it. Just be very familiar with what you want to say, and let it roll out naturally. This is called Extemporaneous speaking... Just Relax and realize that no matter what you say, if it comes from the heart, it's not right or wrong. Obviously, you are loved and have great friends and family if they are throwing you a 40th birthday party, so don't worry, they are not going to judge you.
2006-10-24 04:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short Thank You Speech
2016-10-19 09:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by mclelland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip 1) Keep it short - no one likes listening to long speeches.
Tip 3) Make notes - it's ok to have done so you don't have to speak off the cuff, not everyone can do that.
Tip 4) Either say one big thank you or list all the thank you - i personally think it's better to say one big thank you and then go up to people personally and thank them afterwards. Also saves you leaving someone out and offending someone!
Tip 5) Imagine they are all naked! It really does work and makes you giggle inside!
2006-10-24 01:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Yisca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best tip i can give you is to look over towards the back, so you don't actually look at anyones face as this can put you off. Work out what you want to say and remeber there is nothing wrong with keeping it short. Also, do it later when everyone has had a couple of drinks - including yourself!!
2006-10-24 01:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tip that works for me when i'm up in front of people. Do not write a speech and memorize word for word. You will end up forgetting it and stall. I would make bullet points and just run down the list. Plus it sounds more genuine and less robotic if you do NOT memorize. It'll come from the heart.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 04:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by betafish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always told that when you're making a speech, imagine all the people there are dressed in their underwear and you won't be nervous at all. It'll take your mind off of how n-n-nervous you are. It works too, but you might have another problem with a tendency to break out laughing!
Remember, everybody puts their pants on one leg at a time, no different from you. Regardless of what they themselves might tell you, everyone farts.
2006-10-24 01:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Me in Canada eh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not so difficult as you feel. Remember these people are there because they want to be. Nothing elaborate is needed. Just say exactly how you feel, and remember that no one is there to judge your speaking abilities, but rather to celebrate an important day for you. Just your sincerity will be noticed. Take a few deep breaths to relax before you speak. You will do fine !
2006-10-24 01:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by lavender2dream4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very very simple. but be4 that i stood for 4 school leader(forced to by friends) and i had to give a surprise campaign speech. imagine that! all you need to do is just remember that u just need to say the important points in ur speech. no memorizing complete speech. if u do and u forget then it sort of reveals a weakness in ya. and try being a bit funny if u can. helps by boosting a bit of confidence in ya saying that "yeah my main thing is yet to come" and keeps you going till the end. and an advice speak slowly,clearly and give a very very SHORT speech. a funny thing that saved me in my speech. think abt using it. this was my campaign speech wind up. "So vote for the best person whom you think deserves to be in the senate. And if you are confused whom to vote for,then just vote for me."
2016-03-17 05:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋