Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - November 2007

Can't we just accept it for what it is? We're gay... and that's it. Must we have an explanation why? And, even if there was a, for example, genetic explanation, it isn't going to change anything. The answer will be there, but there will be still be homophobes and bigots...

2007-11-13 12:15:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see so mainy ladies buy and riding cycles.Sturges
it seems has more ladies riding wearin less and less.

2007-11-13 12:14:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

like should I tell my parents? or would that basically be pointless.
and also how can i find other bi ppl to talk to cuz i live in a town where pretty much everyone is straight...

2007-11-13 12:03:54 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom is a catholic Hispanic woman that doesn't view homosexuality or bisexuality seriously. She sees bisexuality as popular trend that everyones adopting. I also feel bad because im an only child and i dont want my mother to never know what it feels like to be grandmother. I dont know what to do!?!?!

2007-11-13 11:18:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so many families are a mess without it? I'm not out to "get" familes, heck, I come from one and last time I looked I'm still in one. How can they profess to love America but have a problem with some law abiding, contributing Americans yet want to represent us all? To me it seems convoluted.

Any thoughts?

2007-11-13 10:56:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can 10% of the population be lesbian, gay or bisexual? do you know how many LGBTs i meet 'coincidentally' on a regular basis? i meet equal amount of LGBTs as i do straights and those are the ones who are out!

2007-11-13 10:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5

find it hard to admit that they are bisexual and are attracted to guys? is there more of a stigma about homosexuality amounst men?
i have quite a few bisexual male friends and they really struggle with saying that they are bisexual so i don't put pressure on them and just let them know that i am there to talk. any bisexual men felt this way?

2007-11-13 10:32:47 · 12 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5

Not even my imaginary friend, of whom I've loved for quite some time, will return my affection. Says it just wouldn't work out between us.

2007-11-13 10:09:54 · 19 answers · asked by [192882] 5

like, ill see a girl and think shes hot or pretty,
i dont know if id want to make out with them or whatever,
and this one girl came out and said she was bi,
and i thought that was really cool of her,
but im not sure,
like, i need help, someone whos bisexual preferably, like how could you tell?

2007-11-13 10:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny L 1

I have been debating between two people right now and they are both really good friends. I only want to tell one of them though. I know they will keep it secret because I trust them and I don't want to come out until after high school (I'm a senior).
So here are their descriptions:

Carly - Volcom-brand wearing girl who is kinda punk but not really, has been my friend since kindergarten, knows some gay people. Thinks homosexuality is gross. ( I could change her view?)

Cierra - Really religious friend who I have been friends with since 5th grade. We have hung out a lot and have spent lots of time with each other. She is caring, understanding, and open to my feelings. (Could her religion interfere with our friendship?)


Ironically, they are both my exes. They are both really nice also.
(I will tell my parents some time, but not now)
Please no rude comments or anything, this is a genuine question and I would really appreciate good answers. Thanks.

2007-11-13 09:54:41 · 21 answers · asked by Realitisaurus 5

I work at this amazing independent bookstore. I've been here for 14 months and I absolutely love my job. They know I'm gay, have no problem with that at all and we are all like family. The only drawback is that I don't make enough money to pay my bills. I just got a small raise but it still isn't enough. There is also almost no room for any kind of growth here. After years of applying, I've finally been offered a job at the university in town. My pay is going up dramatically, I can go back to school for free, the benefits are amazing, I'll get 2 weeks paid vacation at Christmas...it goes on and on. I'm just struggling with the fact that I have to tell my boss tomorrow (whom I ADORE) that I'm leaving in two weeks. Christmas is our busiest time and my job is very specialized. I feel like a traitor even though I know this is a great opportunity for me to improve my and my family's life. Any advice?

2007-11-13 09:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by Stacey P 3

I am a young man (early 20s) suffering immensely from sexual attration to men. Thus far I have never acted on my attractions and never wish to do so.

Instead, I am hoping and praying I will be able to overcome these attractions and be straight. I know I cannot function as a homosexual, because for me the shame, guilt, STD risk, and religious consequences are too great for me to ever be happy in this way of life.

So do you believe change is possible? And if so, how can I change?

This question is serious and desperate and I do not mean to cause anyone offense.

2007-11-13 09:53:28 · 19 answers · asked by Connor 1

so they are free from STDs, wear protection, are single and adults. so....what is the problem?

2007-11-13 09:49:34 · 15 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5

as bisexual. (that's the 10th in the last 4 months!) i'm starting to REALLY believe now that more people than you think are bisexual, gay or trans. i don't think we are a minority like it is claimed to be. anybody agree?

2007-11-13 09:37:44 · 7 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5

Two weeks ago I was approached by this guy at the gym I belong to. To make a long story short, what he did to me in the shower was thrilling, unexpected, and terrific. This is the first time I have experienced a same-sex encounter.
Since then, we have met at least 4-5 times a week. We shower together and get it on. I now know that I am truly gay. For years I have made it with females but knew there was something missing. What was missing is what I have experienced with this guy.
I'm 22, gay, and have discovered a fondness for everything male.

2007-11-13 09:21:00 · 12 answers · asked by pottsie22 3

It's been said that much that passes for sexual intercourse is just mutual masturbation. How do you know when it's more than that? Or is it?

2007-11-13 09:07:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in class and my friend said he would let a guy beat him off or suck him off if he was really horny...I said he was bi but he said he wasnt so what it your opinion?

2007-11-13 08:43:14 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

its well known that Americans,just to go one block,they jump in the car,rather than walk,with the increase of obesity,has this changed your way of thinking?.

2007-11-13 08:25:13 · 9 answers · asked by josephrob2003 7

this girl that sits by me in class always turns to me and tells me to shut up when I'm not even talking and then she'll like draw on my paper and she always has to say something about me being a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian because I have a boyfriend but it just bothers me that shes saying this.

2007-11-13 07:48:24 · 18 answers · asked by ashley 1

I Think He Was

2007-11-13 07:24:37 · 8 answers · asked by foxy_blue00 3

GREENSBORO NC-- Delegates to the Baptist State Convention have voted to expel a Charlotte church for welcoming gays and lesbians without trying to change them.

2007-11-13 07:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by berlytea 4

I'm a girl, quite sure I'm not a lesbian, but I look at girls' bodies...? Is this normal? I really would like to know if any other girls find themselves doing this....please, only sincere answers, no ridicule...please!

2007-11-13 07:21:54 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a straight 15year old guy but I hate being thought of as one of the boys and I prefer being thought of as one of the girls and I have aload of great friends who do that including my exgirlfriend. I know I'm a girl on the inside and I love to be one as my exgirlfriend and the rest of my friends do and I hate having a masculine looking body and I would probably consider transition if my Mum would take me seriously but she won't so I'm stuck with this masculine body and I want to know how I can make it look more feminine without my Mum noticing, in otherwords nothing suggesting make-up and shaving my legs.

2007-11-13 07:13:54 · 24 answers · asked by Lily R 1

That was embarassing to yourself or your character, but you need to talk about it, but have nobody to tell. How did you deal with it?

2007-11-13 05:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7

I'm 18, I just came out to my family like a week ago, but now I can't figure out coming out to my close friends, classmates, and other relatives, and people around me.

2007-11-13 05:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok when i need a bf were can I find one or how can they find me please help me

2007-11-13 05:20:20 · 15 answers · asked by loverboi1 1

What made you come back?

2007-11-13 05:03:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

HI! This is the lucky one that is with Gareth. Right now he is a little upset because some people here are trying to denigrate his good name. To those of you small-minded, bored twerps who feel better about your miserable lives or your miserable relationships by delving into someone else's personal life, I say I PITY you. You open your mouths wide without ANY backstory. It's sad that some of you actually live your lives like that. *scoff*

If you want to talk to someone about values, come to me, because he's WAY out of your league. Cowards.

And go ahead. Report me. *shows you how much I give a s**t*

2007-11-13 05:00:59 · 24 answers · asked by gochefs (Geo) 5

Ok, I think this is so gay!

My friend is 13.
He obsessively watches Avatar The last Airbender. (He is 13)
Last night he said these exact words, "Im watching Avatar it is such a great epi!"
epi-not episode
Anyways he also talks like a girl....
He is always griping like a girl

So,
last night I said.... Everett... (thats his name)
are you gay?
He said no.
But we got in this huge argument because i said that boys our age dont watch Avatar and talk about wut a great epi it is.

So0o0
Im just curious...
do i have a point?
or do 13 year old boys really act like that?

2007-11-13 04:54:17 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2

This day just keeps getting worse. Mom just called and said one of my good friends from high school passed and his funeral is tomorrow. I was not welcome at my reunion because of my "gayness" which is fine. I didn't leave anything behind when i left that small town, but I want to morn the loss of my friend. I will not show up at the funeral as this is not about me and i would not want to make anyone uncomfortable. I just want to smile through the tears. Someone please make me giggle. I know you can.

2007-11-13 04:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4