i think i MIGHT be bisexual, but i dont really know?

Question

like, ill see a girl and think shes hot or pretty,
i dont know if id want to make out with them or whatever,
and this one girl came out and said she was bi,
and i thought that was really cool of her,
but im not sure,
like, i need help, someone whos bisexual preferably, like how could you tell?

i dont want to come out if im not sure.
i dont wanna date a girl if im not sure.

i dont really know the girl who came out,
i mean my friends are friends with her
but ive never really talked to her... :/

Answer 1

It sounds like you are at a point in your life where you are confused as to your sexuality. It's normal, it happens to a lot of people. As far as whether you are bi or not, I don't know and I can't tell you how you will know, but you would know if you were. A lot of young people make up their mind through experimentation *though I am not trying to tell you to find somone to use to find out if you are bi or not* If you think you might be bi, then it's probablly best you give yourself some time to think about what you truly want and desire before you go making rash decisions about your sexuality.

Answer 2

First of all I'm straight but that doesn't matter.

Before you do anything you need to be sure that the feelings you are having are genuinely sexual. You must be certain that you are not just drawn to these girls because of the fact that they are hot or pretty.

Remember everyone no matter what their sexual preference is in some way drawn to a good looking person be they the same or opposite sex.

The only way you're ever going to know for certain is to try.

But you must chose the girl carefully, you can't just hit on a girl coz you think she's hot as chances are you'll get knocked back or worse.

Why not talk to the girl who "came out" and experiment with her. You can tell her up front you are in turmoil about it and just curious. That way you can arrange to stop if you find what is happening uncomfortable.

Or just be brave and "come out" yourself as being curious about it all. Anyone who is worth being friends with will support you. If they don't you are better off without them. Once it is out in the open you will be better able to control things.

Answer 3

I thought I was bisexual before too. Sometimes I can get sort of turned on by hot girls.....and I always love looking at pretty women. One time I actually kissed one though, and it wasn't the same feeling as when I kiss a guy, so I think that's how you'll know if you are bi or not....Im not bi, I just like looking at other women for makeup/fashion tips.......and maybe that's how you are too. You probably won't know though unless you kiss a woman you're into.

Answer 4

If you notice people are attractive but don't want to make out with them, then you are just observant. I noticed Mount Rushmore is tall, but that doesn't make me a sculptor or a rock climber.

If you wonder what sex would be like with a member of the same sex, then you are just curious.
I wondered how long it took to carve that monument, but that still did not make me a sculptor.

I thought it was cool that somebody spent that much work, dedication, and patience to do that, but even that did not make me a sculptor.

If you were to lust for somebody of the same sex as yourself, then those feelings would be bisexual.

Answer 5

i think th top same way as you do. That feeling by way of a few skill got here onto me the day gone by.... i think so wronged and sinful already. i think in my faith (no longer practiced) yet i do no longer think of I dare to do between the biggest sin. this is too risky and is going far greater than the shrink of my "insurrection & non-care attitude in direction of God"

Answer 6

hi

Answer 7

Try it and see if you like it.

Answer 8

Its simple. Do you like penises and vaginas? If so your bi? Happy holidays!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Are you turned on by other girls?
If yes and you are attracted to them then yes you are.

Turn away from it.