Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2006

I just happen to wonder which public restroom do cross gender use? Ok, there's a GUY who's considered a girl that just started working here, he looks like a girl but u could tell he's a guy, and I tried to see which restroom he goes into but haven't had any luck. There's a gay dude also that uses the guy's restroom, but that's obvious. So, where do he/she and she/he go when they have to go? I will try to ask someone I know but my curiosity just occured here at work. I've recently found out "she" was a guy.

2006-10-25 21:19:04 · 17 answers · asked by abc d 2

If a younger woman told you she liked you, what are the chances you might reciprocate the feelings?

I recently told someone how much I liked her. We have been chatting back and forth via e-mail. She said she would like to get to know me. I don't know if it's just for friendship or if it could amount to anything else. She's probably 10-15 yrs older than me, but I feel like I connect with her. What are the chances she likes me back? Do you think an age barrier could get in the way?

(serious answers only plz. Telling me I am going to hell will not work seeing as how I do not believe in it. I have my own spiritual path I am following and am perfectly fine the way it is working out with me. So, I will equal your hatred with prayers of love if you direct any towards me.)

2006-10-25 20:44:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 and Ive been in love with a woman for 7 yearswould die for her and give her the world an still have fantasies of marrying her, but I also find myself heavily attracted to men. On a whole, I find myself much more attracted to males than females and a lot of times when masturbating, it takes SO much to get off to women, (sometimes even her) whereas almost instantly when thinking of a man. While the answer might seem easy based on that, I'm still heavily in love with this girl and crazy about her... she's the most beautiful person I've ever seen and would love to spend the rest of my life with her. So this can make for some confusion. Based on all this, what would you define my orientation?

2006-10-25 20:19:23 · 25 answers · asked by Reginald VelJohnson 2

it is posible for a lsbian to have a girlfriend? how? and how can i know that shes lesbian to? where can I meet lesbian peolple?

2006-10-25 20:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

a bud and I have a true brokeback relationship.. im like Jack and he's more ennis. were in the "going our own way, and finding ourselves stage" both in our early twenties. I used to hangout with him every single day.. now he moved away to another country. He emails me a lot, but I miss talking to him, and having him around, especially tonight. How do I stop this! I feel like so emotional over this, and hes just chillin..

2006-10-25 20:00:15 · 12 answers · asked by dustin m 1

Just Curious, I had a roomate that was a gay republican (he isnt for Gay Marriage or Gay Rights)

My Views is that if you are a gay republican, as good intentions as you may have, you are supporting a very homophobic agenda that will eventually bring you to the very knees you got on, that kissed Bushs A.S.S ~Just My View~

2006-10-25 19:53:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes, I found someone intersting in streets, roads, malls, market or pool for swimming.

and if i ask a man "are u gay", maybe he will kill me or smash me.
so, please teach me the polite way to ask...

or do yu have tricks to figure out if somebody is gay.
if u have a trick, please send me a email.
i don`t want the gay hater know the tricks.

2006-10-25 18:57:24 · 21 answers · asked by Signor Lam Vacitu 1

I've met new male friends who are always teasing each other about being gay or having gay-like attitudes. This is just a game among them, but I feel very unconfortable because I am gay, so I just can't decide if I should remain silent or make a stand and tell them I'm gay.

2006-10-25 18:37:00 · 26 answers · asked by Santi Pazmi 2

I'm going on a big trip in Europe... What are are the best lesbian clubs / bars in these 4 cities?
Would love to have company for clubbing too , if you're interested in meeting up let me know!

2006-10-25 18:34:12 · 3 answers · asked by girl79 1

I dont understand why these people visit these forums to prove a point(nobody ever agrees) Point out the "wrong" things we gay people are doing; you name it: Anal sex, marriage, adoption, being sexual, lesbians, the list goes on. Are these people still in the closet? So why explore this forum, to see whats going on? Why not post on a "Straight" forum of opinions and relationships. I thought this forum was Gay chit-chat and boyfriend/girlfriend problems? Why do I like to put my pudding pop, into someones pudding? Why are gay people genetically prepositioned to listen to Madonna?(disregard the last question. HA!)

2006-10-25 18:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by zuegma1977 4

mm...

are there any gay male that really act like a straight?
for example, he do not act like sissy.
love sports and anything that man love to do.

anyway, HE REALLY LOOK LIKE A STRAIGHT MALE

2006-10-25 18:23:32 · 21 answers · asked by Signor Lam Vacitu 1

I'm at a cross for the first time in the matter.. i was always for "marriage" because thats how I was raised.. and when i came out, thats what was pumped into me at Pride and such.. so I need some opinions!

2006-10-25 17:55:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 17:28:19 · 4 answers · asked by Aeyna D 1

Because the doghouse is for everyone sometimes, right?

I have to say, my abilities to sing and cook have saved me far too many times. Singing--Willie Nelson's "Always on my Mind" is a forever favorite. Cooking--I'm vegetarian, and will only touch raw meat for her if she's really bummed out or I've been absolutely hateful. This is when I start asking my mom how she made her turkey tetrazzini or look up things to do with beef.

If meat and country love songs can't at least start to fix it, I'm in *real* trouble.

How about y'all?

2006-10-25 17:26:09 · 18 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7

2006-10-25 16:56:03 · 18 answers · asked by Milton Egbert 1

anything goes.

2006-10-25 16:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by shyboy 3

I want to be open about this feeling, but I'm afraid to scare her away. I guess I'm hoping she would participate.

2006-10-25 16:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by Calvin 1

2006-10-25 16:52:42 · 14 answers · asked by Milton Egbert 1

I know this could be asked elsewhere but my interest is mainly with our community.
I, Catriona Isobel Rose P was with my beloved Gwenneth B for 42 years. We had our tributes, flowers with breakfast in bed for birthdays, gifts of plants for our garden. Caring and sharing household duties and particularly supporting each other in the face of ignorance and hostility. At our office one bright young thing said "Oh look, here come the spinsters ! Couldn;t get a man to save themselves!" Gwen smiled and asked "Well fellow spinster are we as one?"
The one occasion of which I am deeply ashamed was my visit to
her grave. I had been away on long leave and she had died from a virulent cancer. Her lovely family had claimed her remains and buried them under a stone bearing "UNKNOWN TO GOD". I failed Gwen in that I could not change this. I can only hope that what held us together will let her forgive me. My dearest on earth, give me your kiss. Rose P.

2006-10-25 16:44:11 · 15 answers · asked by rose p 7

But since their were so many gays in her audience last night on Bravo, I will ask it here. Did anybody see Joan Rivers last night & what did you think? I think she is a riot! I was just wondering if she has always had a Gay following, like Bette Midler, who was also great in her heyday. Does anybody have an opinion of her. I thought she looked great & was funny as hell.

2006-10-25 16:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by cola 5

a Police Officers uniform...
a State Troopers Uniform..
Military Uniform...
a Delivery Service Uniform (UPS, mail carrier)
And why?

2006-10-25 16:24:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 29y.o. gay male who met another guy online several years ago. We talk almost everyday on the phone, but have "yet" to meet in real life. He has admitted to me that he has feelings towards me, as I do for him. I value our friendship greatly, but when he mentions he's going out with a guy on a date, "why" do I get "extremely" jealous?! I'll admit it, I would love to date him, but I know that geographically it's not feasible. Is it wrong for me to think like this? Should I tell him how I feel? Ideas / Thoughts / Suggestions? Thank-you SO much!

2006-10-25 15:37:29 · 26 answers · asked by Drew 2

It has only just occurred to me that I have never considered this. The term was never used to Gwen or myself and I am wary of using it. It seems a little derogatory at best.
Please educate me.
Bright blessings Rose P.

2006-10-25 15:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by rose p 7

I have these immensly strong feelings for this girl. I've never wanted someone so bad. But she is straight, and of course she doesn't know I love her. Us being together could never happen. I can't stand constantly thinking about her, fantasizing, and having false hopes. It just makes me sad, depressed, and makes me want to kill my self more than I already do. How can I get over her?

2006-10-25 14:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my best friend and i are insepreble and no one could come between us, well so i thought. Well I am bi (no one knows though,) and my best friend is straight. well my friend knows but i think he may be slightly uncomfortable with it. well rumors about us being gay together is starting to wear on us. should we or shouldn't we stop being friends.

2006-10-25 14:44:40 · 11 answers · asked by Nathan M 1

2006-10-25 14:39:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been talking to this girl for a while before i went to college, and we sort of like each other, well i like her, and i think she likes me 2...but anyway, i want to get this girl a nice gift to send through the mail... i dont know what to send..(im a girl, not to get ppl confused..) im stumped... she's likes sports, music, etc... and im at a cooking school with very little money (max. $20)

what can i get her?

2006-10-25 14:31:52 · 8 answers · asked by Chef Shortie 4

Alright, i am a guy and i am 14 and i like this guy at my it feels like we connect and he is so sweet. school. I think he likes me but I am not sure:

-He does act sort of feminine
-Other people say they think he is gay
-It feels like he flirts with me
-He has sort of a feminine walk
-He does girly hand gestures.

I am not trying to sterotype at all but do you think he is gay.

(I had on of my friends ask him if he had a problem with gays, and he said he didn't but he didn't talk to them)

what do you think??

2006-10-25 14:19:36 · 10 answers · asked by Nathan M 1

2006-10-25 14:19:36 · 27 answers · asked by Zac 1

The kids are both under 5 years old. Wife is not supportive in this matter and who can blame her.

2006-10-25 14:17:34 · 16 answers · asked by Aeyna D 1