If a younger woman told you she liked you, what are the chances you might reciprocate the feelings?
I recently told someone how much I liked her. We have been chatting back and forth via e-mail. She said she would like to get to know me. I don't know if it's just for friendship or if it could amount to anything else. She's probably 10-15 yrs older than me, but I feel like I connect with her. What are the chances she likes me back? Do you think an age barrier could get in the way?
(serious answers only plz. Telling me I am going to hell will not work seeing as how I do not believe in it. I have my own spiritual path I am following and am perfectly fine the way it is working out with me. So, I will equal your hatred with prayers of love if you direct any towards me.)
2006-10-25 20:44:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Love is love, age is just a number...
Go for it I'm sure you will have lots of fun...
I see you following your spiritual path (good) then you should believe that you have met for a reason and their is your answer.
Enjoy yourself take the experience as another chapter of your life book.
if you have been guided then follow the path...
Good luck babes
2006-10-26 02:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by loulou777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age should have no barrier on love, if the chemistry is there, then who cares. I met my partner on line in Feb last year and we have only lived together for 7 months out of all this time, cuz we lived in 2 different countries. She is only 3 years older than me, she could have been 15 years older i didnt care. When you meet that special, once in a life time true love, which i did and i hope she is for you, then go for it. Take a risk, you will never know if you dont try..
Good luck.....
2006-10-26 02:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by geminilovingacancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 30 and my girl is 40 we are from 2 different decades.It seems to work out great...Probably because I was raised with older people and most of my entourage is older then I am...We like the same type of music, movies, activities etc...the only problem we seem to in counter is the fact that she is a little more established(IE.she owns her house I still rent) Oh yeah and theirs the money issues she makes \saves more then I do...but I don't think it's an age thing,it's more of a excessive spender thing...I would not change my relationship for anything...I seem to keep her young and she seems to make me want to plan for the future and be more responsible...it's great... Don't be scared about age...maybe she has a older more mature personality...or vs.vs.
Good luck in finding the right girl...And ask yourself this each day...Am I better with or without this person in my life...and this question goes for all relationships(friendships\familly etc...)As long as you are better with..It's all good...
2006-10-26 02:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
age really doesn't make a difference, it's if there is a connection is what matters most. my ex was 11 years older than me. It never mattered to me, but she was hung up about our age difference. (that was one of several issues, but that's too long of a story).
I am in a relationship now for over 2 1/2 years with a partner who is 9 1/2 years younger, and neither one of us has any problem with it at all. only thing is, she looks WAY younger, and a few people have thought she's my daughter! (I'm 43, she is 34).
If there's chemistry, age makes no difference!
2006-10-26 01:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being that I'll be hitting that big 4-0 in just a couple of weeks, I'm definitely "over thirty."
I've pretty much raised my son already, I don't want another child.
I'm sorry, I don't understand attractions to those who are much younger than yourself. I can't relate at all. I feel I can't connect on the same level as a partner who's closer in age to myself.
I would feel I'd constantly have to rephrase myself or explain terms I use on a daily basis.
I can't have a relationship with someone I'm constantly having to translate to.
2006-10-26 03:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would be hard, I have dated someone younger than me and It was a blast for the first 6 months.. Then soon we found out we were on the same level of life.. I was interested in my future of security.. house, financial, long term, career.. She found herself in the realm of lets party, no responsibilities and did care about her immediate future... I fell out of common..... So it depends on how old you are and if your lookin up to her as a role model.. You might want to find out if your looking for a mother figure.... Or maybe just a real good friend... If you are not 18 years or older it would be a bigger problem... What do you both have in common? Beside you like her and she might like you...
2006-10-26 07:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Age doesn't make a very big difference. Nothing you can't work out anyway. I once dated a girl who was 11 years younger than me. It was one of the best relationships I've ever had.
2006-10-25 23:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by lynnca1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't be a barrier. My partner is 18 years older than me, and life is good!
2006-10-26 00:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, age doesnt matter, if two people can develope feelings for each other, they should, try to get to know her, if shes into it, then good for you. If not, then dont feel sorry for yourself too much, theres plenty of women out there. My girlfriend is younger than me by 12 yrs.
2006-10-25 22:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's surely flirting with you. He normally wishes to get again with you, however does not desire to exhibit it on the grounds that he is scared you could say anything like "I moved on, sorry". Then that might become ruining your dating in combination, so simply inform him instantly off the bat the way you suppose approximately him. He normally gets again with you considering the fact that he has time to speak to you and cross for your seaside get together factor. Why waste lifestyles on anything you do not desire? Thats regularly how I seem at it.
2016-09-01 02:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋