My boyfriend, who I love and with whom I would like to have a long and happy relationship, is a cross-dresser. He told me a few months ago, and I was surprised and (to be honest) not exactly thrilled, but I figured it doesn't hurt anyone and there's no reason why it should bother me, so I decided to just be glad he trusts me enough to share this about himself. He is not a virgin, but he is inexperienced for his age and our culture, and he's self conscious about that and wants to take things slow. Again, fine. He's an incredible person and I can wait for him to be ready, except... he is ready I think, but not ABLE. He gets an erection when we are fooling around, and I have brought him successfully to orgasm before, so maybe it's just nerves, but the other night we were about to, uh, copulate, and he just... went soft. He says it has been a problem in past relationships and is not me. I want to believe that, but if it isn't me, what is it? If it's been a problem before, it isn't
2006-10-25
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