Alright, i am a guy and i am 14 and i like this guy at my it feels like we connect and he is so sweet. school. I think he likes me but I am not sure:
-He does act sort of feminine
-Other people say they think he is gay
-It feels like he flirts with me
-He has sort of a feminine walk
-He does girly hand gestures.
I am not trying to sterotype at all but do you think he is gay.
(I had on of my friends ask him if he had a problem with gays, and he said he didn't but he didn't talk to them)
what do you think??
2006-10-25 14:19:36 · 10 answers · asked by Nathan M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'd just let him be a friend as long as hes not doing anything that makes you uncomfortable there should be nothing wrong with him wanting to be friends whether he's gay or not just make sure you tell him if he does anything that makes you feel uncomfortable
2006-10-25 14:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 and in high school I doubt that he will tell you that he's gay. People used to ask me and I denied it everytime that they ask me, The more they ask the more I hated being gay, the more defensive I got and isolated myself. I didn't accept being gay at 14. I say if you like him befriend him yourself, get to know him as a friend and don't expect for him to tell you that he's gay, you might have to say something to him first about you being gay or bi and that you're interested in him.
2006-10-25 21:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! I used a similar but simpler example a little while ago and a couple of folks want to give me grief because of my stereotypical description, but you get a pass for a real person who behaves that way. I think you nailed it, but what does an idiot like me know.
2006-10-25 21:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you look and act like that? You can't judge based on exterior things like that. Focus on his attitude towards you.
Wait...pace yourself...be patient...be a friend. I'd tell you that if one of you was a girl, too. An opportunity to learn will come up, believe me.
2006-10-25 21:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may well be gay, but your both at that age where he will most likely want to keep that hidden, he may not even know himself yet! Become his best mate and see where things take you! Good luck!
2006-10-25 21:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think one of your friends should ask him if hes gay first so you know for sure because if hes not gay it might freak him out
2006-10-25 21:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..let him realize it on his own if he is...if he's not..well guys act girly too...its called metrosexual
2006-10-25 21:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still in the closet!
2006-10-25 21:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by robleswilber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're too young to be asking those kinds of questions
2006-10-25 21:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just smile --be friendly with him
2006-10-25 21:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋