Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - July 2006

When my mom talks of lesbians (She's ok with gay men), it is always something negative. The says that it is nasty and other things like that. I am gay but she does not know it. I want to tell her but with her attitude, I am afraid I will get kicked out. I have a twin sister and she is straight and she also talks negatively about lesbians. I am more butch like and most people just assume that I am gay. My mom dosen't like the way I dress and yells at me alot for it. Sometimes I think she does that because she dosen't want me to be gay and to let me know that being gay is unacceptable. I want to tell her that I am gay to see if she will stop yelling at me but I am afraid of getting kicked out since I am 18. What do yall think I should do? I plan on moving away after freshman year and getting a new start somewhere else but I want to start dating before then, but my sister is going to the same college. Also, any ideas on where to move to after this year?

2006-07-31 14:17:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my mom talks of lesbians (She's ok with gay men), it is always something negative. The says that it is nasty and other things like that. I am gay but she does not know it. I want to tell her but with her attitude, I am afraid I will get kicked out. I have a twin sister and she is straight and she also talks negatively about lesbians. I am more butch like and most people just assume that I am gay. My mom dosen't like the way I dress and yells at me alot for it. Sometimes I think she does that because she dosen't want me to be gay and to let me know that being gay is unacceptable. I want to tell her that I am gay to see if she will stop yelling at me but I am afraid of getting kicked out since I am 18. What do yall think I should do?

2006-07-31 14:03:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It so sad for me, every time i enter here, and have to put up with sick people who continuosly say horrible things to the community they should be banned from this site, i have never seen a gltb trying to kill people, or saying bad word's to other communities, so why put up whit this, i don't get it, why can we all learn from each other and interact peacefully. What do i do with all the feelings, and anger, Need ideas, what can we do?

2006-07-31 13:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by snorlax72 2

i know the people who say this are mean, but still it does upset me as discrimination is so common still in todays society

2006-07-31 13:43:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-31 13:37:56 · 15 answers · asked by David Red 1

Ok heres whats going on:

I really dont find girls all that sexually attractive... I mean they're hot but I dont wanna have sex with one. And the only chicks that I'd even consider being involved with sexually are celebrities like Lil Kim, Jessica Alba, or Gwen Stefani. Other than that I'd make out with any cute girl all day long ^_^

But on the other hand I do find alot of guys extremely attractive as well and theres more guys i'd rather be with in that way.

now im confused.. am I gay or what?? Bi maybe? Remember I do like chicks... I just dont wanna have sex with one.

and just recently .. i met this guy from myspace and lets just say .. its made me even more confused

2006-07-31 13:31:58 · 14 answers · asked by Mj 4

I get this argument from gays and straights alike. There is no such thing as bi-sexual. You're either gay or you're not. I personally believe that there are some people that can be bi-sexual, but the majority of people that claim to be bi are just saying it for attention. What are your thoughts? And I'm not trying to be hateful or anything, I genuinely want to know.

2006-07-31 13:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 6

Why do some people seem to be stuck in the early 1900's?! Why should it matter to anyone else, if a guy loves another guy, or a female loves another female?

2006-07-31 12:59:24 · 21 answers · asked by ♣ ♣ 2

I truly believe that my friends and family will alienate me. My family is so closed minded and my friends are homophobic. I don't want to freak everybody out. I feel as if i should tell them though. I don't want to be hated by my family and shunned by my friends. I am an adult, so do i have to tell them, and how should i?

2006-07-31 12:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by Valkyrie 4

I recently got out of another 2 year relationship. My last one was 2 years also. Am I just addicted to the "honeymoon" phase of a new relationship? What can I do to stop this cycle? I usually find a new gf before I end it with the last one. I know this is not right or normal. Whats wrong with me? Any help and advice (not insults) will be greatly appreciated. I want a real relationship and want to end these rebound relationships! I dont want to be alone and maybe thats why i dont end the last before I start the new one?? Help!! Thanks

2006-07-31 12:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it so hard to be a lesbian when you're 16 years old? I'm having a difficult time with it. When did it get easier for all of you? I have a girlfriend right now, and it's great, but it's just so hard. I guess I just need to get out of this oppressive town?

2006-07-31 12:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by sds247x3 1

gay?

2006-07-31 12:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by chris 3

I am really in love with a girl on my softball team, I don't know if she is open to other girls or not. How do I let her know without risking our frienship. I soooo want to kiss her!

2006-07-31 11:58:07 · 12 answers · asked by breannalikesit 1

We've been buddies for seven years and are about to start college together. We go to church together! What's going to happen to him? It doesn't bother ME that he's gay, but are people gonna think I'm gay too? I never had to deal with something like this. I live in a small town and never met a gay person before.

2006-07-31 11:46:20 · 34 answers · asked by Sebastian 2

a lot of people like are mean about people who are bi and it is really weird to me... I mean gay people of all people should know what discrimination feels like... so why do are they so mean to the bi people? just because they get half as much as them or what?

2006-07-31 11:41:19 · 11 answers · asked by crackery 3

Lately there have been a lot of posts that say that it doesn't count as cheating if it is a married couple with another girl (like wife and girlfriend thing), which is still cheating. Not even to say how unfair it is to the other girl.

And how are the gay, lesbian, bisexual people ever going to get equal marriage rights when you try to say two girls together is just fun and doesn't count? You're not. And they should have equal rights to marry who they love.

This is different from the threesome thing or even the curious thing. I'm not going into that. It's about when you are married then anybody else you sleep with is called cheating. An example is when some guy said he would be fine with it if his wife had sex with another woman but would get mad if it was a man. You are loyal or unfaithful, there is no middle ground there.

And some guy even said to go to a lesbian/bisexual club to try to pick up a girl. That is so hurtful to that girl who doesn't know she is married. WTF?!

2006-07-31 11:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by MindStorm 6

2006-07-31 11:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by EasterBunny 5

I know that homosexual activities run the gamet but which one comes to mind as meaning "gay sex" to you?

No gay bashers or homophobes please. I am not looking for judgment just trying to get some definition for an article I am writing.

2006-07-31 10:36:19 · 31 answers · asked by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6

I've spent so much time on here preaching about the issues of religion and homosexuality. I firmly believe homosexuality is an abomination in the eyes of God.

I have to confess that last night I had a lesbian encounter with a girlfriend of mine. I'm not sure what to do from here. I only hope I didn't contract one of the many dangerous disease of the sexual lifestyle.

Please pray for me! I don't want to regress to this behavior in the future. God bless!

2006-07-31 10:29:01 · 23 answers · asked by Julia Encarnacion 1

I am just curious

2006-07-31 10:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I married a Bi woman and she wants to be with other women then you better belive I'm out looking for some other women to recharge my sex life with. Maybe I take a trip to Cancun during spring break you know, end up on someones DVD player.There appears to be a double standard there is there one and why?

2006-07-31 10:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wonder if it is cuz i dont wanna move thier if its illegal cuz i dont support hateful peoples

2006-07-31 09:59:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is somewhat of a continuation from the last question I asked since some people seemed to think that I was depressed and needed to smile and wear less dark colored clothing, when in reality I do smile sometimes, but not that often because I don't like to fake happiness, and I don't always wear only black. I also sometimes wear shirts that are blue or green. I even wear jeans sometimes, even though I'm somewhat anti-jeans because it's very rare that I find a pair of jeans that I like. Anyway, I put some links to clothes that make up what my favorite outift looks like just to see if you guys think I'm as dark and dreary as some people say I am.

http://cgi.ebay.com/THE-SMASHING-PUMPKINS-Zero-SMALL-S-Shirt-NEW_W0QQitemZ7608733349QQihZ017QQcategoryZ53278QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

http://cgi.ebay.com/MAN-PANTS-BY-TRIPP-BLACK-ZIPPER-STRAP-SIZE-30_W0QQitemZ140011830365QQihZ004QQcategoryZ57989QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

2006-07-31 09:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by I ♥ Goth Guys 3

My husband knows I like girls. I so badly want to be with one. How can I turn my curiousity into reality? It would be just me and another beautiful lady. Sorry not into butch women, but a pretty femmine lady or lesbian to teach me the ropes. JUST FOR MYSELF, not the hubby.

2006-07-31 09:18:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

personally i break them within weeks and find the quality is sub standard.the record i have is breaking a strap on within 2 hours with a gf.we took it back to the shop and too bloody right!! would you take them back or are you too shy?

2006-07-31 09:13:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like girls that role both ways...so i guess there called stems...?? lol..idk thats jus me.

which do YOU prefer?

2006-07-31 09:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know why but most of my life i only been attracted to almost every other race in the world except for black people. most of my friends are black. my whole family (that i know of) are black. i go to school with mostly black people, so i know i have nothing against my own race.
i dont know why but why cant i see in black people, what i see in other races?
thanks for reading and have a awesome day!

2006-07-31 08:57:33 · 29 answers · asked by Darmcc15 2

I'm 19 and I'm Filipino, we're planning to migrate to Canada. I'm just curious if white men will find me interesting.

Just in case you'll ask, (I dont want to sound boasting, or whatever you call it) I'm about a notch above average looking, and I think many people likes my personality. and no one knows I'm gay. I act manly.

By the way, I think white men are hot!

2006-07-31 08:45:46 · 13 answers · asked by vkrum1900 1

I love my wife.

2006-07-31 08:38:01 · 18 answers · asked by falcon_male69 1

Hi I am 18 years old and I am sort of at a crossroads. My friend Mason(name changed) has been really supportive in our friendship and is helping me with the difficult transition to being an openly gay man.
I don't really have romantic or lust feelings for him, but I know he is older and experienced and that if he was my first, I would feel safe and happy (yes, I am a virgin).
Should I go to him for safety and peace of mind, or should I wait for romance and new relationships to come along? I will probably wait because I still do believe in romance and I'm not of a person of easy virtue. Talking with another friend gave me even more resolve to wait. After all it should really mean something, shouldn't it? I will definitely wait.
I guess I'm asking this to hear what you all (gay dudes) think about it and just to know how you felt about all this for your first time and what it was like. any words of advice for a lovelorn young man? LOL to sum it up, which is better, romance or security?

2006-07-31 08:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Fancy Pants 3