i dont know why but most of my life i only been attracted to almost every other race in the world except for black people. most of my friends are black. my whole family (that i know of) are black. i go to school with mostly black people, so i know i have nothing against my own race.
i dont know why but why cant i see in black people, what i see in other races?
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2006-07-31 08:57:33 · 29 answers · asked by Darmcc15 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just as long as you don't actually dislike your own race, then I think it's ok. It sounds more like a personal preference.
2006-07-31 09:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you do not discriminate in other ways I dont see it as a problem. I personally have a thing for olive skined men you know, Italians, Hispanics and South american guys. Also love ausies and brits something about the accents just drive me wild, irish and scotts for the same reason. LOL
Sorry you other guys.
I do not exclude the other races or nationalities I just don't look their way much. I have seen a few guys of those races that I thought where hot but I am not into twinks so that leaves out most asians. And I dont like guys who like a lot of drama and that kind of leaves out the other guys LOL
Personal preferance is just that personal and should not be held against a person.
I have had people call me shallow but then they would not date a guy that was fat so what are they.
2006-07-31 17:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the problem? YOu have your tastes, others have theirs. This is NOT a matter of discrimination, but preference. NO BIG DEAL. There are plenty in the same boat as you. Some guys will only bed down with those who hang to the floor, others will bed down only with those who have breast the size of watermellons...this is not a preference, it is just how we are. Don't make more of it than it is...people's sexuality cannot be defined in social terms...only in very personal terms. Go for whatever turns you on, and leave it at that. Good luck
2006-07-31 17:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darryl the real question at hand is what's wrong with the Afro-American men? Its OK to date outside your race; if you're not running away form your heritage. The same great qualities you may find in other race can be found within the gay Afro-American group. On the other hand, if there are certain characteristics that are sexual stimulating, then continue to date outside your race without guilt.
2006-07-31 16:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Darryl,
I don't know why you are only attracted to non-black people -- but its fine to be attracted to whoever you are attracted to. I'm white, I've had black and asian friends my whole life -- all of them that I love very much -- but I've only found one (two, but the second one wasn't really a friend, so its hard to know whether to count him or not) black guys and three asians attractive in all that time. Now I am picky, but its been way more than that white guys and arab bois as well.
It's all taste. So enjoy your taste and find someone that really loves you and be happy.
*hug*
Peace,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-07-31 16:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us in the white race sometimes call this "jungle fever." For most of us, it's just a phase. 90% of marriages are between members of the same race.
But, if a man can love another man, a man can certainly love a woman of another race! You want what you want, and while this can lead to problems with racist in-laws, and unfamiliar customs, there's certainly no laws against it. Love can find a way.
2006-07-31 17:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am visa-verse. I call myself "sexually racist". I believe there is no linear logic with human instincts. There is no explanation to your question.
You can trust that there is a balance of the nature. If you are attracted to other races that are not black, you will match with people from other races who like black men. If there are bears, there are also bear-lovers; some elder men like young boys, and some boys like elder men etc etc..
2006-07-31 18:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Moosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe people of other colors are more exotic and interesting to you, and people of your own race are too much like "family", for lack of a better word. You wouldn't be the first to feel that way. A lot of people eroticize the exotic, and that's okay as long as you treat them with respect and aren't self-loathing. I personally am with a woman of my own race, but she comes from another country and culture, and I *love* her accent.
2006-07-31 16:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry hun, alot of people aren't attracted to their own race.. I myself am not either... I tend to think it's because we are curious about other races, and that curiosity makes us attracted to them.. Not only that but like you said we are around our own race all the time so, maybe, we are kinda bored with our own race... We know every thing about it, we are it, so don't worry the attraction is mostly curiosity that you feel... Besides I tend to like dark guys over blondes... It's your own feelings that makes up what type of people attracts you, yah know??
2006-07-31 16:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by amygirl9333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all attracted to different things. You can't force it. Some guys don't like skinny guys...most gay guys don't like fat guys, some don't like older, others don't like the very young adults. Tall or short, blond or red head....and yes, racial preferences. Some of that it build on stereotyping ( xyz race guys all have small endowments ) and some are just part of who you are.
Don't let it bother you. As long as you treat everyone with respect, you don't have to be attracted to everyone.
2006-07-31 17:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋