Ok heres whats going on:
I really dont find girls all that sexually attractive... I mean they're hot but I dont wanna have sex with one. And the only chicks that I'd even consider being involved with sexually are celebrities like Lil Kim, Jessica Alba, or Gwen Stefani. Other than that I'd make out with any cute girl all day long ^_^
But on the other hand I do find alot of guys extremely attractive as well and theres more guys i'd rather be with in that way.
now im confused.. am I gay or what?? Bi maybe? Remember I do like chicks... I just dont wanna have sex with one.
and just recently .. i met this guy from myspace and lets just say .. its made me even more confused
2006-07-31 13:31:58 · 14 answers · asked by Mj 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds gay to me...I'd even say Bi with extremely high standards for the girls, but realistically (like the girls you'll ACTUALLY meet), better just call it gay
2006-07-31 13:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you are:
1) Really young and therefore too young to know yet
2) Confused by this confusing society we live in
3) Just because you think some men are attractive does not necessarily mean you are "sexually" attracted to the opposite sex. Normal people can recognize and appreciate good looks in anyone.
4) Don't let anyone lure you into actions that will endanger your health. Aids is a widespread disease and an "alternative" lifestyle makes the likelihood of catching it far greater
2006-07-31 20:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by LL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever actually had sex? Maybe you're just nervous. Questioning your sexuality is a part of growing up, almost everyone goes through it. I wouldn't worry to much. If you dont want to have sex with a girl, don't. If you want to have sex with a boy, do... but either way, be safe, obviously.
Don't sweat it - it'll all come together eventually.
2006-08-01 00:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO MINGLE MORE WITH GIRLS and appreciate there beauties. But don't acquire their mannerisms and habits. Then mingle with boys and learn their moves, desires, interests, and flow with them. But don't look at them as sex symbols. In the long run, you will have to decide what your sexual preference should be.
ALL THE BEST.
2006-08-01 03:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay isn't about liking someone or not.l'm a gay male and I have lots of female friends (gay and straight ) and male friends(gay and straight)...Being gay is about who you want to make love with...who you want to have sex with...who the fireworks go off with....you'll know when the time is right.
2006-07-31 20:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still find some girls attractive. You might be bi. Whatever you do, just be honest to yourself and you'll figure it all out in time.
2006-07-31 20:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow kid ur kinda weird! girls are extremely sexy, i think about having sex with girls all the time! but i guess u were born liking both! i think my cousin has the same problem as u, he is kinda feminine and girly, he might be gay, but i see him check out girls! so i think he likes both to! or maybe he is just a metrosexual! who knows, anyway good luck bro! please dont be too gay!
2006-08-01 06:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right, if you are 18 or older. If under 18, give things some time...it will become clear as mud later on.
2006-07-31 20:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u could be gay. Gay guys (fish especially) like hanging around chicks. women tend to love their gay guy friends.
2006-07-31 21:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tru 2 Myself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre gay
2006-07-31 20:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by hunglow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋