Boyfriend and I were living together (he was raised as a JW, fell away, and we both declared to be non-religious when we got together.. Alot has changed in 2 years. We have been studying, and he's getting back into the faith, and I am learning, and am very intersted, and can see this for myself. We are very serious about this, and about getting married).Well, ever since we started going to studies, and meetings, we've felt guitly about "fornication", which we are guilty of. We PLAN on getting married, but for my wedding day, we'd both like to be married in the fall but need time to save up for the wedding that we both want. Is it "okay" to be engaged, and have a year, or 6-9 mo (as long as it's in a cooler month, not summer) engagment, getting married in early spring or late fall? Is that okay? OR is it better to just go on ahead and do it, and not have a wedding that I can remember, which is very important to me, and him. I hve been thru a some bad relationships and I am
2007-10-05
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