Psychology - December 2007

I have had a person that I liked a lot, fool with my emotions from the beginning lately, but this is not the first time I've experience grief in this area. I am tempted to be hateful; I feel full of anger. It is impossible to move my mind somewhere else. It's like I have to have someone new to love all the time, or I am miserable: It's always been the case. I don't like most of my family much; most of them were abusive. If I don't have anyone to care about, I'm a grouch, and I'm full of thoughts and worries about myself. It is tempting show bad character, cause of the way I feel inside, but I don't want to make a fool of myself. Life is not grand for me, and never has been; I am tempted to just be bitter, alone, and full of hate, but I keep fighting it, at least until someone comes into my life, then I latch on, which can irritate most women; I don't think it is all that wrong. I workout at the gym like a son of a bytch; I feel great, but I just feel like shyt in the morning.

2007-12-12 11:03:59 · 22 answers · asked by leoprince_28 3

if people have really got to you and youve reacted from anger. how can you gather your mentality back?

after telling them youd like to rip their heads of because you were enraged by their ridicule and taunts

2007-12-12 10:47:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

see title ... nothing i do is ever good enough. i give my heart and soul to school for a freaking 3.7. i try so hard at band and i'm still second part [when i've been a first part most of my life. a FRESHMAN beat me.]. i try hard at flags at my school but i'm not that good...it's just so frustrating how i can't be so good at ONE thing. nothing i do satifies me and i'm starting to think it's so pointless to keep trying to just fail and not be good enough for myself anyway ... and it always feels like my parents are thinking i can do better, and i try, but it doesn't happen. maybe i'm just not meant to be smart, or good at anything, just another nameless someone :/ ... has anyone ever felt like this?

2007-12-12 10:44:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everybody said I do everything fast. I walk fast. I talk fats. I write fast. I think fast. I finish college fast. I get the job done fast.

Is this a good thing. Thank You.

2007-12-12 10:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by Hope 4

is pedophilia a genetic disorder?

2007-12-12 10:33:02 · 5 answers · asked by tweety 3

Everytime I have an interview I always freeze up. I stutter and forget what I'm going to say. Or I forget on how to answer questions.

My interview always screws up my chance of getting the job.

2007-12-12 10:32:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

riddicule everything you say, fire taunts at you constantly ?

i dont have the capicity to be able to handle these people without feeling like i want to put them in their graves or do something seriously wrong to them.

obviously im not going to do this to them, because its not socially acceptable...its not socially acceptable to tie a very tight rope around their necks until officially dead.

but im seriously starting to become wound up by certain people here on this forum who give abusive answers....from behind their computer screens...so easy isnt it?

where im not able to reach them and deal with them.

the last few questions ive asked ive recieved abusive answers.

basically ridiculing what im saying...taunting me......even being called a liar.
why are they singling me out, picking on me?

i have enough to cope with having bpd and chronic mental health difficulties without dealing with pathetic excuses for life forms as this...i think so little of them, i wouldnt crap on them.

2007-12-12 10:07:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today my religion teacher told me that 85% of our brains hold information about our previous life, and that our dreams are based upon them.
Tomorrow we will be watching a movie about this doctor who hypnotizes his patient in his sleep to find out what he was in the life before the one he is living now.

Sounds cool and all, but how many of you actually believe you were something or someone else before the life you live now?

2007-12-12 09:24:53 · 9 answers · asked by pulse. 6

this topic got me thinking. because i dont think you can. but if someone raped you , wouldnt you hate them? but then again you couldn't because you didnt love them. maybe you cant truely hate something without love. cant have one without the other?

2007-12-12 08:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by JessicA :) 1

e.g. particular tv shows, movies, music artists.....make critical rants about them

2007-12-12 08:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 08:13:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

life?

i must admit it makes me cringe, especially when you only associate with people your familiar with that come from similar backgrounds etc.

but then you get people answering you on here saying, ' im like you ' and ' we have a lot in common '.

it makes me so incredablly annoyed, because i like to select friends, im a clannish person, but when people persist in approaching you or emailing you, it borders on harrasment.

theres times i feel provoked into saying something extremely nasty and scornfull because the person wont go away...and cant seem to take the hint they are NOT wanted in my life.

i normally just cold shoulder and ignore them....but they persist in contacting me....or saying '' hey you and me have alot in common and i think you no we do ''

this is when i get exasperated.

i mean what are you supposed to do?

its not like you can batter them to death, batter them unconscience is it?

but technically i dont think their breaking the law so im not sure i could

2007-12-12 08:12:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realize there are circumstances like x-spouses and immediate family members that one has no choice but to interact with.... but if one knows that a relationship or person is unhealthy or dysfunctional... why do some people do nothing to change the dynamics of the interactions between them?

2007-12-12 08:02:54 · 6 answers · asked by Kaybee 4

would giving extra attention in that way help to curb the behaviour of a narcissistic(ish) person?
trying to find some solution to an employee who is constantly trying to show how good he is and always pointing out what he feels are shortcomings of other people or there "mistakes" (usually only mistakes because they weren't done as he would have done them) he seems to be threatened by anyone who shows good confidence in themselves and picks on them especially by suggesting to me that they are "problems" or incompetent when in fact they are our best guys. i cant stand it anymore but i don't have the ability to terminate him myself and want to avoid going to the boss to get him terminated if possible because i think he genuinely has a problem , it would be best if there were some way to curb the behaviour rather then him. any ideas? would extra praise help? hurt? should i give him a blunt reality check and let him know where he actually stands with everyone? suggestions please.

2007-12-12 08:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by None 4

If you can't: answer anyway; I know I can't.

2007-12-12 07:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

-This is no attack on athiesm at all-

What goes through the head of a dying athiest?

2007-12-12 07:31:19 · 6 answers · asked by Pedro! 2

2007-12-12 06:54:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 06:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by Christina C 1

I have to present this topic to my class today. Any suggestions or questions YOU have in general are welcome.

2007-12-12 06:52:52 · 2 answers · asked by grfisgd 6

income support to the church she said she did when she and her husband were unemployed for a few weeks and I am a sngle mum bringing up my grandkids and she has a massive place 2 living rooms, my living room is the size of her hallway,
massive kitchen university educatino husband with good job, comes from middle class background. parents with good marriage and income, what do you think about her reply to me, i dont, seem to like her

2007-12-12 06:29:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 05:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by LUCKY3 6

feel stuck in someway. How have you dealt with fear?

2007-12-12 05:35:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not homework or an essay so I am not looking to find a easy way out I just found this an interesting concept and wondered if there are any radical views from anyone in education.If I had my way I would give more than 2 points for the answer.

2007-12-12 04:14:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

classifications and your opinion of course!do you think it is valid and damaging as a form of abuse as much as actual physical contact?as they say that it is the pyschological and emotional effects of physical abuse that is more damaging?is this also the case for sexual abuse?

2007-12-12 03:55:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We´re doing things to adapt to the situation and not to correct.

2007-12-12 03:49:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was a child I was actually frightened, sad to say, by the Planet of the Apes. Now as an adult about the only thing I fear are giant roaches that they call "palmetto bugs".
Anyone else have weird childhood or adult fears?

2007-12-12 03:40:52 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6

I usually don't get too upset about things. I try to be nice and show respect towards everyone. That being said just yesterday someguy where my gf works said some really degrading remarks towards her infront of her boss and a few other people.

After taking my gf home I started to think about what he said more and more. I tried to brush it off thinking thats a stupid thing that people do or what he said isn't so bad. That didn't help at all. I just started to get more raged. It came to the point where I wanted to kill this guy.

I went to his work place went behind the counter swore at him. I kind of wacked him in the face grabbed him around the neck with my right hand and told a lot of F words. Anyway if he had acted disrespectful and not said sorry I would have beat him. I really was ready to kill him too. Its not over and he could say other stuff behind my back. I need advice to calm down and not become to upset about this. How can I deal with this in a healthy way?

2007-12-12 03:26:55 · 21 answers · asked by treeofwisdom7 3

Do you think people are attracted to other people with similar upbringing or the type or parenting they had ?

Ex. Are men who had strict parents attracted to women who had strict parental upbringing ?

I tended to be attracted to guys who have dysfunctional parental upbringing just like me .

2007-12-12 03:19:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example:
How does red make you feel?
How does green make you feel?
How does blue make you feel?
How does purple make you feel?
How does black make you feel?
How does white make you feel?
How does yellow make you feel?
How does brown make you feel?
How does grey make you feel?


and above all: What do you think of orange?

I am kidding, just choose the colour you like ...

2007-12-12 03:12:33 · 14 answers · asked by Ivory33 6

I just feel HATE towards my boyfriend , to the point where i feel i could KILL him. IS there any psychological reason why i feel this way. And the only reason i'm with him is not cuz i'm physically attracted to him just hes kinda stable. But NO physical attraction whatsoever. WHy do i feel this way?

2007-12-12 02:59:36 · 36 answers · asked by Ask ME 3