this topic got me thinking. because i dont think you can. but if someone raped you , wouldnt you hate them? but then again you couldn't because you didnt love them. maybe you cant truely hate something without love. cant have one without the other?
2007-12-12 08:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by JessicA :) 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, i can.
I hate this chick that works in the other office. I mean I really hate her....and NO, I have NEVER loved her.
2007-12-12 09:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can hate someone without loving
on the other hand , i know there are so many stupid and terrible people in the world
that softens the hate to people in general for me
i always replace the woord love into "giving to"
in case of rape you would also think: why me?
and that also can change the way you hate that person
when you have low self image your hate is not so big
when you have a strong self image you look for other reason
why it happened to you.
i think rape and love are two complete opposites from each other
2007-12-12 09:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by hein 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can have one with out the other that's what prejudices
are. The not liking or hating someone or a group of people becasue of the color of the skin, race, religion and sexual orientation. Hate does not have to have a reason, it just is. I some times wonder why it's so much easier to hate than to love.
2007-12-12 09:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't authentic. we don't ought to hate in any respect. We do must be empathetic in the direction of our buddy's and neighbor's desires. this might finally grow to be love. I understand its a asserting, besides the undeniable fact that it fairly is an extremely undesirable one which won't authentic. think of approximately human beings (hippies are great examples) who're intense on marajuana, what do they hate? If there is something they do unlike, they are passive approximately it and don't motel to violence. They make a remark then flow on.
2016-11-03 01:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by tegtmeier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, I've hated people before and I never felt a second of love for them.
2007-12-12 09:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is interesting to me. my first answer if yeah sure...like i hate the president....but then i think....but i don;t actually experience that hate in me, it's more of an opinion. i hate the war, i hate that people are dying, but do i love those people too? maybe. but not actively. i dony actually know them. somebody recently seriously hurt my friend and i do love my friend and want to help her but i kind of have no feelings about the person who hurt her. i don;t bother hating him, i don;t think he deserves my attention even to tht extent. hm........:)
2007-12-12 09:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by long lashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSSS you can hate someone without loving them sometimes I just want to tear my classmates heads off seeing how annoying theya re I don't love them.
2007-12-12 09:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Flounder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Racism classifies groups of people based off traits they have and blankets all those with these traits to receive hate.
2007-12-12 09:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love Saddam Hussein?
2007-12-12 09:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl you can hate anybody you want but the bible says forgive and forget and love your brothern
2007-12-12 09:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by da shortest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋