how do you deal with people who call you a liar, question your integrity, accuse you of making up stories,?

Question

riddicule everything you say, fire taunts at you constantly ?

i dont have the capicity to be able to handle these people without feeling like i want to put them in their graves or do something seriously wrong to them.

obviously im not going to do this to them, because its not socially acceptable...its not socially acceptable to tie a very tight rope around their necks until officially dead.

but im seriously starting to become wound up by certain people here on this forum who give abusive answers....from behind their computer screens...so easy isnt it?

where im not able to reach them and deal with them.

the last few questions ive asked ive recieved abusive answers.

basically ridiculing what im saying...taunting me......even being called a liar.
why are they singling me out, picking on me?

i have enough to cope with having bpd and chronic mental health difficulties without dealing with pathetic excuses for life forms as this...i think so little of them, i wouldnt crap on them.

so why do they pick me and how do i deal with them?

i seriously could imagine relentlessly battering their skulls in.....but then, that would put me on their level.

Cautious..; shut it

vito r : shut it clown. take the gun kill yourself..you worthless pathetic person

the difference between me and them is i dont attack people when i answer questions....i show people dignity and respect

NoOneEls. : no it doesnt make sense . speak for yourself. im not a liar . and dont you dare accuse me of lying either.
id love you to call me a liar to my face.

Answer 1

you think yahoo answers is bad??? try dealin with the people that know me, both on the internet and real life, a bunch of punks and if it was the old days you would be able to challenge them to a dual and fight them to the death, now you just have to deal with it in other ways but sometimes i just want to kill a couple of these people. they just want to mess with your mind since theyre so screwed up, maybe jealous of ya. your good questions, etc

Answer 2

It is obviously that you are very injured and desperate person. I have noticed that there are some idiots on this board who have nothing better to do with their time than to be mean to other people. They have an ax to grind with the world and take it out on people who don't deserve it.

That being said, your solution to their behavior makes you end up much worse than they are. All they are doing is saying stupid and inconsiderate things, while you want to take their very lives. Probably many of these people, if you met them in real life on the streets, wouldn't bother you that much at all because only meek and ineffective people act like idiots on the boards. They aren't like that in person.

When you take a life, especially for such a mild crime, means that you aren't just taking that person's life. You may be taking the life of a father, son, friend, brother or grandson. You irrevocably change the lives of people who don't deserve any wounding. The death of a friend or family member can leave sadness and sorrow for all the days of the survivors lives.

I know you are probably just venting, but who is the most idiotic, a person who is stupid or person who kills people?

People are responsible for their choices and right now, you are letting virtual strangers have power and control over you because you choose to let these things bother you. Consider choosing something else. Choose to think of them as idiots, not worth your time or your anger. It will make your life so much easier.

I know what I am saying is hard to accept, but try doing some reading on Buddhism. You will learn a whole new viewpoint. You are hurt, but you can be healed, by your own self.

Answer 3

They are picking on you because people can sense when it will get a rise out of you. They live for it, and they are winning, because it has. I haven't looked at your questions, but you may be posting things that sound extreme, or revealing too much about yourself in a way that attracts abuse or teasing, or it may just be the same trolls everyone gets in response to questions. I hate to say it, but you HAVE to get a thick skin and let it slide off, or stop posting. If you participate in these boards, expect to be called out. Anything you say is asking for someone's opinion, good, bad, or ugly. If many people call you a liar, you may need to take a good look at what you are saying. Take yourself with a sense of humor, and keep the vulnerable part out of reach.

Answer 4

Ok first of all Ignore the 'get the gun' comment because obviously that guy/girl is insane! And if you listen to them you will be to! Anyway, I used to have a friend who was going through the exact same thing you are going through now. In my opinion she was a liar. She just did not want to except it. Maybe all of these people criticizing you and saying these things to you is making so angry that the anger is overpowering your ability to realize that maybe you do constantly lie and are just being stubborn. ITs ok breathe in breathe out. Its not the end of the world. Its just about excepting what you have done, changing it or doing something about it, and moving on. Thats all! Analyzing the situation to the extreme will just turn to into a crazy madman. So these people maybe they are right, maybe they are not. Deep inside you know wether they are or aren't and only until you except the truth will this stop bugging you. Everyone makes mistakes. But its those who have the couraage to recognize them, take other peoples advice and change, that actually get somewhere in life. Those are the people with the least drama in their lives. Hopefully this all makes sense.

Answer 5

You can of course always key the button marked 'Report' which would leave Yahoo to deal with the offenders.

Sorry if you had abusive stuff. Some people have their sensitivity cells (amongst other things) removed at birth.

You are always free to 'not read them,' by the way. Simply ignore them .....which may not be an easy thing to do, but it will save you the grief you wind yourself into.

Sash.

Answer 6

I absolutely abhorr, when someone calls me a liar. In the Bible, there were many times, that God's followers were taunted and lied on by these types of vipers...I usually can keep my cool, until someone calls me a liar or a thief..and then, I call them on it in a nice way..or sometimes, I just ignore them, and don't even give them the satisfaction of knowing it upset me, as that what they were trying to do in the first place....Sometimes, we have to just learn to forgive them, and once again, go on...this is really what God tells us to do, and leave the 'vengance' up to Him...and believe me, He does know just what they need. God Bless, don't waste your time worrying about such people...pray for them, and thank God, you are not that type of person

Answer 7

i could confront the individuals who're doing this to you and tell them precisely what you suggested on the top. you're able to never do something to soil his reminiscence. do not save to your self. enable your thoughts be regularly occurring. i could attempt to encompass your self with people who're actual. those human beings do not look actual in any respect. those human beings do not sound reliable which you are able to be around. i could connect a team of ladies individuals on your challenge , style of like a help team. in case you bypass to church or synagogue, connect a women individuals's team. do not enable those human beings sluggish you down .

Answer 8

Frustrated huh? I feel you....Hey just let it all go...People will always do those silly insensitive and inconsiderate things to others of us who only want to exist peacefully in this world.

Forget about putting them six feet under and let them talk...

If you should ever find yourself in the place where you want to reply to them angrily, just please remember that a soft answer turns away wrath. and you'll want to treat them as how you'd want to be treated....yes, yes yes, i know they're not thinking like that, but you be the bigger one here ok.

All the best with that.

Answer 9

Why on Earth do you take sarcastic/funny/abusive etc responses seriously?!?!

I can't see your questions so i don't know if maybe you are asking provocative questions or if you ask questions when everybody is drunk and think they're being funny.

Answer 10

I went through the same thing and I found the best thing to do was just ignore them,once they find your not reacting to them they lose interest.