Psychology - December 2007

I don't have to be here today or on X-mas but it is more fun than sitting at home alone. I have filed a few garns electronically and set up a few auto repos for tomorrow. I am now having lunch and goofing on here.

2007-12-23 06:33:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a year and a half ago I was working for a company in sales. Another representative had to split his commission with me because he sold a deal to one of my clients. When he found out he had to split it, he started screaming at me in front of several people which lasted for about 2 minutes. He even made an attempt to lunge at me which was thwarted by other people. I went to HR the next day and reported the incident. He was going to get fired, but I heard through the grapevine that if he did get fired he was going to do something to me. I should have gone to the police at that point but instead I called HR and told them I didn't want him fired, so they just wrote him up and that was the end of it. To this day I am bothered so much by the fact I did not get that spaz fired and angry at myself for not having carried it through. A few months later I was fired for some total nonesense. Im having a hard time shaking off the regret I feel for not having that SOB fired.

2007-12-23 05:23:04 · 8 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

everyone i seem to initiate contact with over the internet, on yahoo answers, on myspace....leaves and rejects me.....liketheir being told to stay away not get involved or be my friend anymore..

contacts on yahoo answers dont im me anymore or contact me through messenger.....people that i valued grew to like, that i added to messenger..

contacts dont show any interest anymore or answer my questions........LIKE SOMEONE HAS TOLD THEM NOT TO

people on myspace have stopped talking to me to and have just deleted me from their myspace....2 u.s girls.

this is really hurting me and making me angry....i want to find the conspirators...whoevers doing it....and anhialate them.

all my life ive been rejected...never made friends...never been in a relationship.....was bullied severley...sexually abused.

and i want to know why im being outcasted, ignored and rejected by people i meet and start to like ?

i try not to be clingy...i try not to act desperate or let my very low self worth show

2007-12-23 05:09:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is it
what makes a good or bad ego
this is somthing i cant seem to get a grasp on

2007-12-23 05:04:33 · 6 answers · asked by Arunza 2

I have heard and seen that there are some people who, when faced with a painful memory or a situation that reminds them of a painful memory, they act like small, frightened animals.

Their responses include, but are not limited to:
- Running away or trying to run away
- Going quiet
- Whimpering
- Shaking
- Trying to find somewhere to hide

What happens that, for them, this is the response they give?

2007-12-23 04:40:15 · 16 answers · asked by Lady Myrkr 6

cuz im soooo shy and i cant do what i really want because im afraid of other ppl oppinion.. :/

2007-12-23 04:32:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this was the first and only time i said things like this to her. i apologized to her sincerely many times but she can't forgive me. we are broken up now. i had a problem with being hyperthroid, which causes irratibility, but i don't want to blame it on that. have you ever gotten angry and said things like this? do you think these things are worthy of forgiveness?
"you have so many reasons but they're all BS excuses to me", "i really don't give a sh*t," " i just think your mind is utterly strange", "you are so full of cr*p" "I think i love you but that pisses me off so i'm going to stop",

2007-12-23 04:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1

I'm an 18-year-old girl. I know that some people think it's wrong to go to ex-gay therapy, but I seriously need it. I am attracted to women, and I feel as if it hinders my life.

I want to be able to live a life that is not scrutinized by other people all the time. I want to have a happy family with a guy, and be committed to him without thinking about other women. I am also a religious person, and liking women goes against my values.

Can anyone who shares my beliefs give me some tips about leading a heterosexual life. How does the general people live happily, while avoiding attraction to the same sex?

I say this because I know that only 10% of the world population experiences bisexuality/homosexuality.

I find it really weird that some people NEVER think about the same sex in a sexual way. Are there any reasons? Is there a way of thinking that can change my outlook on life?

2007-12-23 03:49:48 · 19 answers · asked by WOWZA! 2

My parents and their friends are some of the most OBNOXIOUS high spirited, perfectionistic, high expectation, snooty snobs that I have EVER encountered. I mean these people are so obssessed with everything and anything, and every grade their kids get MUST be an A, and if it's an A-, you must fight fight fight to get it up there!!!!! Caffeine caffeine caffeine, competition competition competition!

When I come across these people, I just get so nauseated and offended because they seem to live on cloud 9, and don't have their priorities straight.

Are they suffering from some type of a mental disorder or something?

OR am I the bad guy for finding them annoying?

I just can't deal with such obnoxious people. It's irritating.

I mean it's okay to aim high, dream, achieve, yadda yadda, but these people are unbelievable. They're so stuck up their own butt, it's just wow.


Is there a way to deal with these people even though THEY themselves won't ever change?

2007-12-23 03:09:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you just fly off the handle or does it take a little more to push you off the edge.

2007-12-23 02:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Dr.Bacon 1

2007-12-23 02:41:13 · 2 answers · asked by CarpeDiem22 1

my boyfriend was arrested because my parents called the police and i didn't. he was arrested for family and domestic violence although he and i are not married and we live with our respective parents. i did not call the police and didn't want him arrested. is it normal to hate officers when that situation occurs?

2007-12-23 02:19:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will do it the American way, hand over the heart and all that.
I vow that I will not go into anymore English pubs for ever and ever.
Do you want to no why? I am a non smoker and when they changed the law I was over the moon but the pubs have turned into churches. They are the most miserable places on earth with the most miserable people one can imagine. From now on all the parties that I go to will be held around my place or my friends houses and as far as I am concered they can smoke there silly heads of. At least we we won't get bored.

2007-12-23 02:01:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you ever forfilled a fantacy
what was it .where did it happen
was it unexpected
how did u feel after it
was it perfect

2007-12-23 01:50:29 · 10 answers · asked by Arunza 2

2007-12-23 01:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Nope 1

Condition only you can take revenge.

*People this is fun question.I have no intention of killing anyone.I just want to see how creative people are

2007-12-23 01:20:38 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 22:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 21:57:59 · 23 answers · asked by Tony 3

Sometimes I feel like I can feel if my dad is happy for me, worried, or even feeling regretful... Probably just me feeling for him, but have you ever felt like that?

2007-12-22 21:21:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i never study, waste my time on everything but studies. I just study one day before exam and manage to get like average or above average marks. My iq is like 120.My mom also says that i'm very intelligent and i'm wasting it all. Now today we had a viva in which very difficult questions were asked most of us didn't know those(only 1 student out of our 15 people batch knew it). Now the thing is she is my friend. She studies too much. Sir praised her so much. I dunno why but i'm so so jealous rite now. I just want to be at that position. I want to know and study all that stuff. But i just can't. I've read all concentration techniques. I just can't get myself away from distractions. Now this time my latest distraction is a row i had with a friend some days ago and this jealousy thing i just had. Please help me it just won't go. I daydream a lot. And yes i'm also taking anti depressents. Only serious answers please.

2007-12-22 20:39:11 · 10 answers · asked by melancholy 1

How?

2007-12-22 20:20:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 30, have mental health problems to long term......bpd ( borderline personality disorder )

i live alone , due to my problems ive never been employed.....never had a girlfriend or a partner.......never made any friends, ever.

i live in a small one bedroom flat on sickness benifit, i own no possessions except a old dusty computer.

my physical problems are :

i have cracks / fissures of the skin, little tears on the head of my penis....im not sure what it is....the sexual health clinic said i was clear of any stds...by doctor said he doesnt think its a skin disorder, he said its UNUSUAL but not abnormal, he said he'll find out more...he said the fissures, cracks in the skin cannot just be glued together....when i asked what can be done about them.....most guys have a smooth surface on their penis head.

he gave me canisten cream but it hasnt worked.

im overweight, im drinking alot of fluids....im worrying am i diabetic...even though ive not been diagnosed with it,,,,

2007-12-22 20:11:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 6.5 mos preg. and the father of the baby has been changing with me lately (for good). at the beggining, we both didn't want to keep the baby, they I did so he agreed; time went by and we would hardly see or talked to each other. it hasn't been that long that he was kind of being nice to me, but he would never have that much time to spend with me and would give me a million excuses of why he couldn't be with me as much. well, last week he was supposed to see me, and when i called him, he didn't answer at all, so I texted him telling him that he was only a hipocrit, a liar, that i didn't want his kid, and to never call me again, plus i told him that i hated him as well. the next day he called almost 100x, i would ignore him and when i decided to talk to him, he talkd to me diff, and asked me to go out smwhere, etc. after that, he calls me more often, is sweet with me, brings me groceries, 'n does what i ask him to do. i just don't know if he's really changing or just fakin the funk?

2007-12-22 20:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in college so I consider myself semi grown up, but within the nex couple of years I hopefully will be greaduating and finding a job. I have a job right now its a good job but I don't want to stay in this position. I am scared that when I graduate i won't be able to find anything and all that time and money will be for nothing especially considering my major is Communications. I just don't want to graduate and be stuck in the same place I am now. I guess I just need some happy thoughts and that with time I will get over my insecurities and be able to make something of myself.

2007-12-22 20:04:24 · 23 answers · asked by bookworm87 4

I didn't know where else to ask that question so forgive me if I ask
it in the wrong section.When I was going to the elemantary, my IQ
was below 100.My sister told me that I'm m****but I had difficult time concentrating on the test.Afterwards I took another test and I received 120 points.Last time I took the test I made 5/10 and according to the test,I got 120 again but 4 of the questions I got wrong was because of the calculation mistakes I did in the exam.What I want to ask is if the concentration can make difference,How can one rely on the IQ tests in order to find out how intelligent he/she is?

P.S.Another thing I forgot I guessed the answer of famous IQ question of Albert Einstein and it was correct and afterwards I solved the question.According to Einstein,Only the %2 of the world can solve it so based on the tests and the question How intelligent am I in your opinion?

2007-12-22 19:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

hope chris tiu answers. we need his answer for an essay we are making bout him....please chris..

2007-12-22 19:21:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

1-for giving us happiness ?
2-for making us a nice human?
3-for avoid our problems?
4-or anyother use of god-
pls tell- thanks

2007-12-22 19:08:31 · 24 answers · asked by drasifbly 2

When I was in around first grade, I recall having my ken dolls rape and abuse my barbie dolls. I do not recall having been molested myself, nor do I recall witnessing domestic abuse or rape in person or on TV.

Is it normal for this sort of behavior or is it possible something else is going on? Only wondering because my parents are convinced I've been molested since I am frightened to death of any kind of intimacy and touching.

And sorry this is so personal.

2007-12-22 18:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are not in contact and i do not consider him a friend anymore.

he verbally abused me for a period of time (flatmate). he then sexually assaulted me (before the act , i said ok (he pressured me)) then, i did not want it, I kept on crying, but he did not stop.

people are blaming me for not able to control myself or not resisting enough. it hurts. true that i do not understand some of my response too. i only kept on crying. he told the police that i loved him and he was released.

2007-12-22 18:40:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 18:38:02 · 19 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4