Psychology - December 2007

and to stay away from me ?

i say this because something very weird is happening to me.

i think people are being told to stay away from me, wide berth me.

im a borderline personality disorder sufferer, im 30 years old, i live alone in a one bedroom flat on sickness benifit...ive had a very hard life....sexual abuse..bullying...abuse...assaults.

i have a very low self esteem because of this, always have done...im clingy to...struggle to form relationships with people...feel unworthy. dont no how to talk....reciprocate with people.
due to my traumatic life, ive never made a single friend in life...never had a partner or been in a relationship, ever.

i want to know since ive had the internet, for 2 years, ive met a handful of people on myspace...on yahoo answers...on dating sites...added them to my messenger...msn or yahoo....i talk with them for a couple of weeks...then i dont hear from them again....they erase them selves or delete me...stop talking to me...or appear permenantly

2007-12-24 23:02:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

to make you angry.

2007-12-24 22:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Had to happen really didn't it, The happiest day of the year and I wake up depressed. I don't mean to bring any of you's down today I am just hoping someone can relate or offer some advice.

When I opened my eyes this morning I just felt like crying, I remembered its Christmas day and I just didn't care, I have heard of people being depressed around christmas because they are lonly or what ever, I am far from it, I have a wife and 2 kids.

I got up and watched the kids opening there presents and was smiling away but it near killed me to smile, behind that smile all I wanted to do was burst into tears for no apparant reason, I haven't been depressed in quite a while and i'm baffled as to why it has happened today.

2007-12-24 21:22:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this obsession or love. What is the best way to distinguish the two?

2007-12-24 20:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by TT 2

I get jsut (just) , wnat (want) and fodd (food) about 90% of the time I type those words. I am an excellent speller in real life and speak well, but my typing skills show a definite pattern of mismatched vowel/consonant combinations. If it helps I am a visual thinker.

2007-12-24 19:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi i am in my early Twenty's,
but i never really lived life to the fullest
for a while now, i been having second thoughts, regretting things i didn't get 2 do, but i feel like someone took years of my life away for no reason, and every time i think about it, it pisses me off, stresses me out, makes me feel like its 2 late.

How can i start living life to the fullest, what should i do, or not do.
Can anyone help me out with this, - suggestions, opinions.

2007-12-24 19:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Vince J 2

I am in under psycic stage I stongly think that i am in hijra categary.but i am male What can i do?

2007-12-24 18:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have bad past that i have spent money on unnessessary things.

2007-12-24 18:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by Nasir A 1

2007-12-24 17:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by benny 1

Is there any scientific discipline that studies mental illnesses as causal of social phenomena and how that happens? There are lot of theories on how social factors can reult in development and form of mental illness, but that is not my question.........please dont drag discussion into that.

2007-12-24 16:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by shibu 1

in the dream i was in the mall and i was with family and one of my family members ask to take my 1 year old child upstairs (i could not see any of the family members faces) so they left me downstairs to go upstairs. They went up the escalator and i heard someone scream my name and i came running and one of the family member said nathan (my son) i said what he fell on the escalator. I was like what he has a broken leg, arm or broke the skin or something and one of the ladys said no he is dead and i woke up...What does this all mean

2007-12-24 15:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by mo 1

i would understand a drunk driver or somone breaking the law but just doing drugs y do people care?

2007-12-24 15:25:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont really know how to phrase this question!

2007-12-24 15:13:22 · 3 answers · asked by NENE 2

2007-12-24 15:04:38 · 16 answers · asked by Neil B 2

For instance you would say something in the aspect of why a basketball player isn't doing well.

You would notes their flaws and what needs to be improved and people get mad because you're not a pro, do you have to be a pro to voice your opinion?

2007-12-24 14:53:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's kinda odd but I just realized that I cannot react well when I don't get my way because of someone else's doing. This is something that hasn't crossed my mind in the past because usually I tend to be quite tolerant and often allow others to have what they want. Sometimes I might even give in to demands without making too much of a fuss about it which is mainly because I experience difficulty saying no to people (not always though because everyone has their limits). Usually I have trouble dealing with people who are overly demanding. Now I'm realizing that I really might not be as accepting to losing as I thought I have been. Allowing victory to others doesn't always affect the way I view myself therefore it's not damaging to me but instead it's done to boost the ego of that person and as a way to satisfy him/her. However I don't think I can sacrifice something that makes me happy in order for someone else to get his/her way unless of course I would gain satisfaction from it.
There's one thing that would truly agitate me and that's when people make promises saying that they'll do something if you are willing to make a sacrifice but than end up deceiving you and not keeping their word. When there's a turn of events and I don't get what I want I become extremely annoyed. It's an irritating feeling and it feels like you're slowly burning inside and desperately needing to vent out your frustration. My response is to sulk, mope, and childishly demand having my way. Well I demand it but not in a direct manner and not exactly by making everything clear. I guess I kinda expect people to read my mind but than again I give many clues. It's just very difficult for me to be blunt with what I'm trying to say but at the same time I want to get my point across so I do it by torturing the daylights out of the person who upset me. This can be considered childishly annoying but I cant really control it (I don't always regret it either because people often do a good job at provoking you). Calming down is not easy if that person is not willing to talk things out with you. Surprisingly I cool down quickly if someone bothered to show some patience. I mean I cant help it that I feel hurt.

Is it really wrong to handle things in such a way?

2007-12-24 13:09:16 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

well I was going out with this guy for a couple of weeks but then I asked him if he liked me-he said he really likes me just can't commit right now because he's too stressed with uni & needs to finish the semester coming up before making commitments & he's sorry its his fault. We used to spend all our time together in the period of a few weeks

When I was talking to him he asked what I was up to n I said nothing and he said what would you rather be doing?...
i replied something bout going out but can't cos have to work th next day. I asked him what would he rather be doing, he said
'driving back to my mansion to my gorgeous naked girlfriend.' What do you think he expected me to say or feel?

He knows I like him and we spent every minute with eachother before he asked me out, we knew eachother 1 1/2 yrs before but not really well. He hasn't had a relationship longer than 2 months-he said he got bored & slept with 1 girl-he's 22

2007-12-24 13:04:08 · 3 answers · asked by Some random girl 2

Been in a papermill for 13 years now,been thinking about maybe getting my CDL start driving a truck.
Just tired of politics and all the other stuff that comes with closely working with other people.
I'm 44 maybe I'm having a midlife crisis can anybody relate??

2007-12-24 12:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by pete 3

2007-12-24 12:46:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brothers didn't listen to me and did something that hurt me a lot. My little sister surprisingly supported them. I asked them if what they did was worth losing a brother. They didn't answer. I said that I didn't know who they were anymore and said just the sight of their faces disgusts me.

I can't find it in my heart to forgive them. They have the lowest regard for my father it seems, and that I can't seem to forgive.

Thoughts?

2007-12-24 12:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 12:33:02 · 5 answers · asked by kyojo 2

Even though I recently found the most wonderful person ever, I'm so damn depressed. Why can't I just be normal and happy? Why am I pent on self-sabotage? I don't want to lose someone it took a miracle to find.

2007-12-24 12:26:36 · 3 answers · asked by A.Lee 3

I know some people who are attracted only to the most gorgeous, and others who are attracted to anyone who's at least average. Some that are simply not attracted to anything less than a 10, and some who are ok with 6 and up. What is the science and psychology behind this? I'm curious. Thanks!

2007-12-24 12:22:23 · 4 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4

to really have it all ?

2007-12-24 12:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

Whenever my Father talks to me about stuff, I can't look him in the eye. I wasn't raised that way or anything -- I have always been taught that I am just as good as anyone, etc.

But unless I am talking to my Dad about something really trivial, like what's for dinner, I have a hard time keeping eye contact.

I find that I generally struggle make and maintain eye contact with everyone except my Mom and boyfriend.

2007-12-24 12:17:21 · 4 answers · asked by Original_Syn 6

Question Details: well I was going out with this guy for a couple of weeks but then we broke it off cos he didn't want a girlfriend...well he actually said he really likes me just can't commit right now because he's too stressed with uni & needs to finish the semester coming up before making commitments & he's sorry its his fault. We used to spend all our time together. We're now friends.

When I was talking to him he asked what I was up to n I said nothing and he said what would you rather be doing?...
i replied something bout going out but can't cos have to work th next day. I asked him what would he rather be doing, he said
'driving back to my mansion to my gorgeous naked girlfriend.' What do you think he expected me to say or feel?

He knows I like him and we spent every minute with eachother before he asked me out, then it fizzled out cos he can't commit. He's been out with 1 girl. He wanted to meet ne recently to come to his friends house

2007-12-24 10:57:51 · 3 answers · asked by Some random girl 2

2007-12-24 10:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 and had attended uni for 4 years pursueing a degree and failing. I am a bright young man who did well at school and know that I have a lot of potential. However I can't help but feel inferior to others my age who have well paying jobs, flats, degree's etc. I am shunning my friends efforts to contact me because I dread having to tell them of how little I have done since I left school. I have read endless self help books but I still feel empty. I don't know what to do with my life and struggle to make decisions or feel strongly about anything. How can I explode from the starting blocks and start making something of my life?

2007-12-24 09:53:03 · 18 answers · asked by Hally 2

2007-12-24 09:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 09:11:41 · 18 answers · asked by Juan V 1