Is he trying to make me jealous/get a reaction? and why would he (help from guys especially)?

Question

well I was going out with this guy for a couple of weeks but then I asked him if he liked me-he said he really likes me just can't commit right now because he's too stressed with uni & needs to finish the semester coming up before making commitments & he's sorry its his fault. We used to spend all our time together in the period of a few weeks

When I was talking to him he asked what I was up to n I said nothing and he said what would you rather be doing?...
i replied something bout going out but can't cos have to work th next day. I asked him what would he rather be doing, he said
'driving back to my mansion to my gorgeous naked girlfriend.' What do you think he expected me to say or feel?

He knows I like him and we spent every minute with eachother before he asked me out, we knew eachother 1 1/2 yrs before but not really well. He hasn't had a relationship longer than 2 months-he said he got bored & slept with 1 girl-he's 22

Answer 1

Well, guys will say alot of stuff, dont believe any of it. Maybe hes only slept with one girl, maybe he hasnt. Maybe there is a naked girl waiting for him, maybe there isnt. Dont worry about it. Guys get jealous alot. It only means we care. If he wants you to be jealous, maybe he wants to see if you care, maybe he doesnt want a good thing to go bad after you two could potentially break up. OR MAYBE, hes just being annoying.

Answer 2

He expected you to laugh and say something like "Yeah, me too."

He was NOT indicating that he HAD either of these things, but you DID ask what he would rather be doing, so that was his honest answer. He was not thinking that you would take it any other way but as a joke. WHY would he be trying to get some kind of silly reaction out of you - as far as HE is concerned, you are nothing more than friends.

Do yourself a HUGE favor, and try NEVER to assume - it will always get you in trouble. If you do not know, then ASK.

Answer 3

insecurity