I'm 6.5 mos preg. and the father of the baby has been changing with me lately (for good). at the beggining, we both didn't want to keep the baby, they I did so he agreed; time went by and we would hardly see or talked to each other. it hasn't been that long that he was kind of being nice to me, but he would never have that much time to spend with me and would give me a million excuses of why he couldn't be with me as much. well, last week he was supposed to see me, and when i called him, he didn't answer at all, so I texted him telling him that he was only a hipocrit, a liar, that i didn't want his kid, and to never call me again, plus i told him that i hated him as well. the next day he called almost 100x, i would ignore him and when i decided to talk to him, he talkd to me diff, and asked me to go out smwhere, etc. after that, he calls me more often, is sweet with me, brings me groceries, 'n does what i ask him to do. i just don't know if he's really changing or just fakin the funk?
2007-12-22 20:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he's 32, and i'm 20
2007-12-22 20:10:26 · update #1
Ask him. If you have doubts, it will never work! Remember, you are bringing in another life.
2007-12-22 20:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jesse M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just as scared as you are. Seems he may be some what immature if he is dating someone so much younger. You need to ask him the though questions. If he is in it for the long haul counciling couldn't hurt. Kids are hard work you and he need to be on the same page. Think about the baby first. Much luck to you. I have 3 myself so any questions drop me a line.
2007-12-23 04:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by pinkshady25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know either of you so I can't answer but I know in matters of the heart your instincts are always right but sometimes if they tell us something we don't want to hear we look to people to try and convince us otherwise. Maybe give him a bit of time and see if it lasts but I once heard 'Every woman should know when to try harder and when to walk away' and I think this is very true especially in your case cause you need to look after youself and your baby.
2007-12-23 04:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by roisindu2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be changing - fatherhood has changed many men - and especially if he knows the baby is his.
see what happens when the baby is born.
2007-12-23 06:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him hes after (or caught) someone else.keep the baby!
2007-12-23 04:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by monteb b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋