Psychology - December 2007

This is all i have written so far. Some feed back please.

Out of the darkness, her face looms.
Haunting my mind, restricting my sleep.
She led me to an inevitable doom,
By pulling my love in so deep.

I fell for her like so many before.
She struck me down without second thought.
Her denial slammed me against a rocky shore
Of surviving her treachery, I have no shot.

Caged into this world of a shattered heart.
The only option is the release of my soul.
Only until death do I part.
From the prison of a world with agony so full.

Its funny how death is my savior.
The word death reverberates deep in side me
Although its only effect has been on my behavior.
But this brought happiness before you could count to three.

2007-12-22 04:04:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think the weirdest thing a oerson an do is come up to u start running there mouth about who knows wat and say bye for no apparent reason and u don't no that person. Now it's weirder things but that's the weirdest to me.

2007-12-22 03:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by $cUtIE*10*$ 1

When I first started my job a few months ago I was treated OK. Then abt 2 weeks into it, I was treated worse and worse, almost to the point where I had to leave. I was green & not with the program when I first started. I was anxious about my performance & of learning the ropes quickly. What made it worse were my supervisor/coworkers above me in rank. I don't know if it was because they were testing me or because they passed negative judgment about me too quickly b/c of the weaknesses I've shown, but I was berated, made fun of, talked down to & not treated in a respectful manner. My boss did nothing. Her boss did nothing. I wasn't given much help nor tasks to do either; it's like they didn't trust me. I initiated tasks that made me keep my job up until now, I guess

I didn't stand up for myself b/c it was a worried abt doing so to my superiors & at work, esp. not knowing how things worked there. I feel like I'm now thought of as dumb doormat who can't tackle problems. Can this be fixed?

2007-12-22 03:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by advice 1

Where is the place I should take her? And how do you call this exam of the brain?

2007-12-22 03:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by ILSE 5

there's so much i'd like to know, of course you read the books for that but i have just a few basic questions about things, like whether you need a degree to get a job in a particular field or what the career options are. do you think it's ok to email someone you find online and ask them. i think people who truly appreciate knowledge won't mind and here i mean the best of the best but i've also encountered some not-so-nice individuals. what are your thoughts, thanx

2007-12-22 03:19:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guitar center employee pissed me off?
yeah i've went in there the past few weeks to try the guitars,and i don't turn up loud,but why waould he freaking stare at me?I called to voice a comp-laint and they said that you can try the guitars for as long as you want(another guy also said that when i was in there before i called to get mad).I'm a good player(have good chops)so it's not like i sucked,but i'm wondering what his problem is?

2007-12-22 03:19:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was mentally abused for a period of time by a close friend. I cut him off after he sexually assaulted me.

People do not understand how I feel and my response. I am confused and unsettled.

1.when he insulted me in public, I only smiled and ignored. I am not sure how hurt I feel.

2.I did not leave right after the assault. Instead, after he comforted me, I hugged him really tight for some time and kept on saying that I was scared and questioned him for his intention. why?

3. I was crying throughtout the assault. he did not stop. he argued that crying was not enough of an objection as he induced me to say OK before the sexual activitiy. (i think it is still unlawfully,right?)

4.people do not understand that my self esteem has been chipped and do not hv the mental power to fight back , especially when he is a psychologist. Am i thinking too much?

anyway,thx

2007-12-22 02:53:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, what your point of view on this...


Do you think Erasing certain memories in peoples brains will help them? Say for example they have been hurt when younger, or they have been in a abusive relationship. Erasing the memories can eliminate the experience one has gained... but also allow them to trust and love someone else without feeling fear..

Or bad relationships some people seemed to get over attached, they could spend years talking about how tey love this person they haven't seen for a year...

What do you think is better to have the experience in mind? Or is better to erase them and have the chance to have a better experience?

2007-12-22 02:37:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work with a very lax boss, who is not organized or structured -- or at least does not extend herself to be so to others

I need structure and organization to work most efficiently. I otherwise have to work in a state of confusion, which leads me to not be productive or efficient. This increases my anxiety level, especially when thinking I may lose my job

I don't want to be a sucker and work late all the time or on weekends, but it's hard for me to concentrate at work. I think best after a good night's rest, and when I'm not commuting in a half-dead mode

This leads me to work on weekends and respond to emails or send emails over the weekend. I'm afraid to be seen as a doormat. I was one at my last job, and they got rid of me. I want to show my value and worth, and make up for times I've shown my anxieties and other weaknesses at work because of the environment

Aside from looking for other employment, how is it best to work to do your job well, but to not be perceived a doormat?

2007-12-22 02:34:39 · 8 answers · asked by advice 1

2007-12-22 02:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by Dave H 1

2007-12-22 02:05:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everybody hates me in the real world but on the internet,everybody is so kind and I often find myself talking to starngers so I don't feel depressed,and to eascape the real world.Is this normal?What can I do about it?

2007-12-22 01:54:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 01:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have good ideas about how to work at my job and improve things, but I don't know if I should be the idea person as it may be threatening to my boss.

I always work to help, rather than be a one-upper, but I also need to be sensitive to others as well.

My boss doesn't seem to not like my ideas/suggestions, but if my gut tells me I should watch how to move, I try to listen (haven't done it in the past).

I don't know if this will affect my chances in my getting raises or bonuses. My boss's boss doesn't like me and I'm not sure who decides what. I don't work directly under my boss's boss (obviously), so unless she's told of my efforts, she won't know them.

I don't want to take more on and look like a doormat, and think it's good to come up with solutions and have initiative.

Please help me in what's best to do in the workforce.

2007-12-22 01:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by advice 1

2007-12-22 01:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by Chelsea 2

I know this is a common problem as with psychiatric medications that exist now many are still ill, but some are only able to function in a limited capacity in society - despite outwardly appearing normal despite severe mental illnesses. Do you have a mental illness - severe enough to be on medication - and family members especially or even friends don't understand?

2007-12-22 00:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like im wrecking my life a bit. For a long time two things have affected my life... first of all looked really young and never felt like i fit in with people my age so i never formed any friendships or talked to people growing up... I also lived in a environment when i was growing up where my parents yelled and fought on a daily basis. The combination of these has caused me to be a non social type person that continuous to stick to my self instead of be involved in anything. I tend to be very self concious an depressed alot from not allowing my self to have fun. I would like to be different but I tend to never create the change that i want. I want to be more friendly and outgoing but i guess my social skills are not very good and it feels so hard to change my behaviors. any advice that could help me ? Thanks !

2007-12-21 23:58:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want so badly to just break down and cry, and let all this crap go. I've been sad for so long, but I've always kept it to myself because I didn't want my family to worry about me.

I also didn't want to cry because if I did, then it was like admitting that what happened was real. I don't want to go into detail, but someone I trusted very much tried to take my life, and I didn't want to believe she would do that to me. I just wanted to understand 'why' after everything was over, but I can't.

Now, I just feel like crying. I so just wish I had some way to let this out... I don't understand why I can't - it's been 3 years, I should have cried a long time ago.

Please, please help me. This is the second time I've asked on here, and I've read site after site about crying. I just want to cry in the normal something-awful-happened way. I don't want to fake it, I don't want to stop myself, I just want to let all these feelings go and be done with them, and her, so that I can feel good again.

2007-12-21 23:55:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 23:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by smurf 1

A former co-walker will not cease harassing me. This individual is someone I've worked around for years. Never any close association what so ever, hi and goodbye. When I became single, and everyone on the job knew about the messy divorce,all hell broke loose. This beast went hog wild with harassment.

2007-12-21 23:10:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm scared of spiders, dark & elevators..

2007-12-21 22:58:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had the misfortune to phone my boss last week & report sick for work. He asked me how sick I was?, and I told him that I had Shagged my mother & sister the previous night and asked him if that was a sick enough excuse?

What is the best excuse you've given your boss when phoning on sick?

2007-12-21 22:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by The Special One 3

2007-12-21 22:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 22:27:00 · 7 answers · asked by Love 2

What is the walking direction on path way in india and why ladies always walking against the right direction

2007-12-21 21:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by Chinu 1

2007-12-21 21:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by smily 3

Stop making it a big deal. Should have spent those resources and money on more useful aspects. The parents are simply selfish and only think about their daughter for their bloody negligence. Move on mates.

The world is full of sufferings and mishapsand they should realise the truth after living in good life for some years as doctors.

2007-12-21 21:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by Sexyboy 2

I can't help but think about shooting up my school. As time goes on, the thought frequently occurs.

I even find myself thinking of the school exploits and plans, on accident.

Is there any way I can get help? I want to stop feeling like this, I feel it's going to effect my life.

2007-12-21 20:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by Paradox 1

These days I am having a hard time to get a job. I was a little bit nervouse .......ㅜㅜ .how can i prepare to answer the question. if there is someone who knows well. show me the way

2007-12-21 20:27:56 · 2 answers · asked by James 1

I've always got that inner voice telling me I'm not like most people.

2007-12-21 20:20:53 · 5 answers · asked by Abdulla S 1