Psychology - February 2007

can anyone tell me what they always dream of having in their lives, who they dream of marrying, what dream job they have in their dreams, and car (or truck) they own in their dreams???? my dream job is to be computer repair persona and run my own bussiness remaking computers, my dream car is 1981(my birth year btw) ford mustang, and my dream wife is singer michelle branch.... and i always dream of having three kids twin boys and a girl...

2007-02-24 16:16:36 · 4 answers · asked by geostrom b 4

When you see something or a thought of something (i.e a weird looking man on TV) or something which is weird or very out of the ordinary and very unusual, you get this disturbing feeling where you really stare, you shiver, you feel "pins and needles" in your head, it makes you repetitively look at it or think about it and it strongly lures your attention to it...and it makes you constantly wonder about it. Its not so disturbing when you have i.e music on, but it when everythings silent and the lights are off etc, gives more of that disturbing feeling? What is that feeling and why does it give you that feeling?

2007-02-24 16:15:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

all my life i've had crushes on boys, never on girls..i've dated a lot of guys, and some were fufilling, some werent, but i notice i always get so insecure in the relationship, about the guy leaving me or finding some one better that i almost push them away without realizing it, and now im wondering if its my subconscious telling me that im lesbian or something? or if that means something. I had a very bad childhood experience with my dad leaving me when i was 7, so i dont know if that has to do with the whole insecurity thing, but now im wondering if i wanted these boys in my life to date or to play that fatherly figure, but i dont know, i dont see why i would wnat to pursue a romantic relatonship with them if that was the case?

its really been freaking me out the most lately, im currently with my boyfriend of almost 2 years, and its been kind of rocky since this whole ocd has struck me..but today we had a fight and he said something like "you act like your obligated to have sex"

2007-02-24 16:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by kelly j 1

you have been decieved and devalued by someone you trusted. My ex, I feel, completely manipulated me when we were together, told me all the things I wanted to hear and used me for emotional support when he was feeling SEVERLEY depressed, only to leave me for someone else and then acted as though we never existed. Who does this ?? He is 29 yrs old, well educated, a teacher. Not only did he leave me to be with this other girl, he spoke negatively about me when I did nothing but be there for him. We never fought when we were together. What type of guy is he?? IS he a manipulator? Now I feel low, have no self esteem, I feel I didnt deserve this from him. How do I cope?

2007-02-24 16:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everything that comes out of me seems to be in the past tense. Which makes it sound like they've already gone. So.... any ideas?

2007-02-24 16:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by lotusgirl 2

give the reference site.

2007-02-24 16:00:39 · 2 answers · asked by blitz2.0 1

My sister and I are in high school. She is a sophomore and I am a senior. I tend to get along with everybody at school and can befriend any body I feel like talking too. My sister on the other hand has a really rough time making friends. She has no problem talking to people, but when it comes to actually making friends, she's hopeless. People come to me and tell me how we are exactly the same, but they like me more. My sister is exactly like me, except for some reason, less personable and less likeable. It's almost like she hasn't developed her own personality, is it possible? Or is this some weird twist on a social anxiety disorder?

2007-02-24 15:56:44 · 6 answers · asked by jacee 1

are there any good websites on body language, that are accurate?

2007-02-24 15:56:25 · 13 answers · asked by THKE 1

2007-02-24 15:53:32 · 6 answers · asked by THKE 1

I just told someone what i thought was a simple lie to get out of something. i thought it was so easy and wouldn't hurt anyone's feelings.
okay i've learned my lesson about lying. now all i can think about is if that person finds out or how now i have to watch what i say because i lied. can you help me??? what are some lame ways i can get out of this or even expose the truth with some lame excuse

2007-02-24 15:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by Tina 5

2007-02-24 15:51:19 · 21 answers · asked by Lotty 1

Mine was finding a copperhead in my shower. The things I am most scared of are spiders and scorpions.

2007-02-24 15:48:59 · 1 answers · asked by stitch 3

Sweet ones to all...

2007-02-24 15:48:09 · 19 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

people always tell me be normal

2007-02-24 15:33:45 · 13 answers · asked by destrucktable 1

it listed "obsession, compulsion" as two possible aftereffects CSA (child sexual abuse) and I have a question about the context? like, obsession and compulsion as in OCD? i am curious about this because I am OCD, i know i wasn't ever sex abused but i am curious about the similarities. and to any survivors of sexual abuse i am not trying to compare myself, or say i've been through anything as bad, i just have a question about that one part of it.

2007-02-24 15:28:27 · 3 answers · asked by redundantredundancy 3

2007-02-24 15:24:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i see a psychololist and i write alot of poetry and song lyrics. he has asked to see them but im hesitant because i hold nothing back and some times the lyrics are morbid or suicidal but i egt a realeise from it. im worried if i show him that he will try to stick me in a mental institution jst cuz of what i write. should i show him my writings?

2007-02-24 15:09:40 · 11 answers · asked by doktor of the mynd 1

really hate it, there was this family friend at our place, all i did was go to the laundry and watch the clothes if they had dried, and he came behind me and took a paper from there, and as he was a guest i asked him 4 water etc n all n dad is like ur deliberately trying to be alone with the guy, and i call him brother, my dad is soo sick iv been crying non stop 4 the past 3 hours, i have nobody to turn to,i feel such a disadvantage of looking good and then my brother tells dad that i chat with my friends on the net n he took my laptop away. i feel soo sick. i really want to die...... and i have had no such intentions whaysoever, he doesnt even look good, and i dont even like him and i think of him as my brother. ill go crazy, he's like ill get u married soon and all that ****. i hate this.is there anyway i can live my life?, please do not advise me to talk it over, it wont work.
i feel sick of being my dad's daughter, he wont trust me 4 anything. we cant split i still study.n im 18

2007-02-24 15:07:19 · 2 answers · asked by golden heart 1

I have a serious issue with being insecure and its ruining my social being.?
when im out and about i notice people stare, but my male friend always tries to assure me that its because i have something nice on or my hair he also says if i wasnt looking he would tell me. no matter how many times he tells that people are complementing instead of being facistious, i have a serious bout with my insecurity i need some help.

2007-02-24 15:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by sexy black 1

I was curious what a Wake is after a Funeral? Why do people have them? My Grandfather passed away and there was a Funeral and a Wake. I couldn't attend either thats why I am asking.

2007-02-24 15:05:22 · 3 answers · asked by ♥skiperdee1979♥ 5

2007-02-24 15:01:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how well do u hv to be mentally prepared to become a psychiatrist?the qualifications n needs? help!?

2007-02-24 14:56:58 · 2 answers · asked by Diva 2

i wanna know what makes any person strange to u!
best answer +10

2007-02-24 14:52:16 · 9 answers · asked by verito! 3

2007-02-24 14:49:03 · 3 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2

This bloke I know keeps on trying to hit on every girl I get close to!
He really is trying to wind me up!
I always act the bigger, mature person and let him Try!
He always fails! No matter how much B.S he tries to tell them!
However my question is What should I do?
I am getting pised off turning the other cheek, should i teach him the lesson of his life and beat the living c4rp otta him to finally show him not to mess?
All oppinions greatly recieved
Thanks in advance!

2007-02-24 14:46:16 · 24 answers · asked by Chris W 4

How do i become a straight A student. To those smart pple out there. How do u do it? How do u stay focused and keep gettin As?

2007-02-24 14:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by Tim 2

I wonder whether it's really true that a guy become so mean to a girl to whom he likes. I have a really bad experience about this guy whom I met due to my job. he was so mean--verbally attacking me, taking every single word personally, interpreting in twisted way, etc. We've hardly known each other before we actually met.

Also, in my previous experience, I saw a simillar case like this; I was attending a technical training class, and there was a female IT person from Finland. A lecturer was an English man, and he was so mean to her. Each time he threw a hard question, he picked this finnish lady up, asked to answer, and made her embarrassed when she couldn't answer it. Surely, they'd not known each other before the class.

So, both guys I mentioned above, did they somehow like me(I'm a girl, too) or the finnish lady? And, they took behavior opposing against their feelings?? Or, did they really hate us? People can hate people at the moment they see them for the first time??

2007-02-24 14:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-24 14:35:55 · 12 answers · asked by ilu 1

2007-02-24 14:24:42 · 11 answers · asked by max 1

Please tell me your story or just give some general advice on this topic.

Thank you.

2007-02-24 14:21:57 · 2 answers · asked by What gives? 5