Psychology - February 2007

i have been doing administrative work for the past 6 months and i absolutely hate it. it's reached to a point where i am "dragging" myself to work. i do not know why i'm not finding another job although i've been trying...i feel i am stuck! this job is consuming my time and not even paying enough...i''ve tried to be positive and stuff but i am just unable to break free from this job and go on to something new..why is this happening to me? i'm beginning to really get depressed...

2007-02-28 18:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by saxoool 2

2007-02-28 18:38:45 · 18 answers · asked by clairejgray1 3

in the pan ?

2007-02-28 18:30:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 18:20:59 · 2 answers · asked by bote 2

Something kind of unrealistic....but how do you show them that you are totally serious about it and really want to do it?

2007-02-28 18:16:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 18:15:31 · 6 answers · asked by masoy5 3

2007-02-28 17:53:51 · 1 answers · asked by Janusz 1

What would cause a man show no compassion for his lady?
Ladies! Have you been here? What am I to do?
I have been depressed for a long time and warned my man in the beginning that I wasn't ready to have a relationship. I just got out of a 4 1/2yr relationship and I told him I was too needy. He had a crush on me for 2 years before we dated and we have been together over a year now. He disregarded my warning and now hates when I get needy for his attention. On V-day he was away on a business trip and because he procrastinated he ordered flowers the day before. They never got to me. He knows I don't like flowers because they are played out. I asked him why flowers anyway? He said "Because I knew I procrastinated and It was all I could do!" He says he loves me but I don't see it. Am I confused?

2007-02-28 17:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by Starshika 2

My ex left me to be with the mother of his child a one night stand before we met. NOW, when I was with him he was depressed even suicidal about this, I was there for him unconditionally. I told him he should have been a part of his child life. But get this, when he went to meet the child he developed strong feelingd for the mother. She made it very clear she wanted him and that he missed out on his childs life for 2 yrs. He turned so cold to me and acted like I never existed and even more so, he talked about me and devalued me. NOW, I pretty much saved his life, brought him to his daughter and look at how I got treated. I told him off in every way, and he wants nothing to do with me. HE and the mother of his child are no longer an "item", but they remain freinds and when I tried to confront him about us, somehow she meddles in and calls me to defend him>>?! They are not together because he found out she lied to him about some serious things about her childhood. WHY is he still

2007-02-28 17:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What strategies do you follow?

2007-02-28 17:28:34 · 15 answers · asked by inquisitive 1

Were there actually letters that were discovered buried ? It seems plausible but i cannot be sure.

Anyone knows ?

2007-02-28 17:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by Alexander the Great 1

2007-02-28 17:14:01 · 8 answers · asked by sterling 2

My ex left me to be with the mother of his child a one night stand before we met. NOW, when I was with him he was depressed even suicidal about this, I was there for him unconditionally. I told him he should have been a part of his child life. But get this, when he went to meet the child he developed strong feelingd for the mother. She made it very clear she wanted him and that he missed out on his childs life for 2 yrs. He turned so cold to me and acted like I never existed and even more so, he talked about me and devalued me. NOW, I pretty much saved his life, brought him to his daughter and look at how I got treated. I told him off in every way, and he wants nothing to do with me. HE and the mother of his child are no longer an "item", but they remain freinds and when I tried to confront him about us, somehow she meddles in and calls me to defend him>>?! They are not together because he found out she lied to him about some serious things about her childhood. WHY is he still

2007-02-28 17:05:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've lost almost total interest in my major (politics) an do not find any sort of enjoyment out of any of my other hobbies/interests. I feel like I have nothing much left to live for because of this, what can I do to overcome this situation?

2007-02-28 17:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why the heck do people ask questions that can be easily accesible on Google or other searches? Ex: "What is the full form of HSBC?" or "What is the ocean to the left of America called?" Who would go through all the trouble to post a question on yahoo and wait for a relatively long time for an answer rather than just looking it up? Why can't the questions be more thought-provoking or more theoretical? Or they can be about current events that really matter rather than the celebrity crap! Let's have a Revolution! jk lol

2007-02-28 16:42:41 · 32 answers · asked by 3.14159265358979323846 6

why this world, or life in general, is so different from your previous thoughts? It just seems like when youre a kid everything was so different than when you are older. I mean i know maturity changes your perception, but its as if the older generations already know when n how life will reach its 'crappy' point but they hold it back as a big secret???

2007-02-28 16:38:41 · 6 answers · asked by nenagrl 2

how can you remember the dreams you have, how do you train your brain to remember? sometimes i remember, but often i forget by morning. I heard that everyone dreams like 7 times a night, but they forget by morning.

2007-02-28 16:29:13 · 7 answers · asked by Jonathan 2

I do not know what is wrong with me exactly. I do not mean to sound conceited but I am not a bad looking guy, I am in great shape, I'm witty, funny, intelligent. But I am 23 and still single, i have not once been in a relationship. This stems from a long deeply nested fear of rejection. But as i said it is deeper than that. I seem to sabatage any potential relationships for myself, by simply not persuing, still fearing rejection even though I know I wouldn't be rejected. There is a girl right now, beautiful, just like me in our interest. She works in a nail shop one of my family members frequents and that is how I heard of her. I met her and later found out from my aunt that she thinks I am extremely cute and funny, even asked if I was dating anyone. Now I really, really, sincerely want to ask her out to eat. But this, and forgive my french, ******* fear is like a roadblock. Their is a saying,"Strangers give the best, uninhibited advice." Please lay it on me. I need it.

2007-02-28 16:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by Cain 1

This guy I was with, I found out had manipulative and lieng ways. Regardless, when we were together, he confided in me alot and I was with him every step of the way emotionally. He told me he never wanted to live w/o me and he appreciated me and that he even talked about marriage and all that. Well, another girl had more influence on him and he left me to be with her, the mother of his child, he even went out of his way to be cold and hurtful to me. Anyhow it ended badly between us. We said alot of things to each other, I had every right to, he was just hurting me to defend himself. Anyhow, I wonder, will he ever realize how hurtful he was to me and will I ever get a genuine apology from him. I don't think he will ever find someone like me as far as genuinly caring about him, I was there for him when he wanted to commit suicide to the point where I would fall asleep with him on the phoen if need be. I thought I was everything he wanted. I am attractive and I have a great heart.

2007-02-28 16:25:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 16:25:06 · 17 answers · asked by pramo 1

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2007-02-28 16:16:53 · 7 answers · asked by ingrid 2

Is it normal to have a harder time with thinking and being slower the older one gets?

I'm talking about...by the time one is 20. Harder to think things out, slower at common sensical problems that normally took you seconds as a child that now take you a few minutes or more....

2007-02-28 16:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

And without lying.

2007-02-28 15:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2

Since I was a little girl Ive struggled with holding back tears for no apparent reason. Even if I did something wrong and someone corrected me without even gettting mad at me or raising their voice I would still cry. Im 21 yrs old now and I still cry about any little thing. what do I do to stop this???

2007-02-28 15:59:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do. Now I am fairly sure I know what this means, but I just do not want to make the mistake of missinterpreting this. She is a very close friend but I don't want to make the relationship uncomfortable. OK here it is. I got an email from her with this in it.
KIRA'S LIST OF FAVORITE ATTRIBUTES of MICHAEL
-Sense of humor
-Humility
-Groundedness
-Supportiveness
-Wit
-Unselfish Nature
-Empathy and Understanding of Others
-Perceptiveness
-Taste in Movies and Television
-Artistic Talents
-Interest in the Life and the World
-Long Hair
-Impossibly Blue Eyes
-Laid Back/Casual Style

I wouldn't have thought anything of it if not for the "impossibly blue eyes". Am I wrong to read into this?

2007-02-28 15:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by Michael M 4

2007-02-28 15:53:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just have not been well. Not well at all. My last option just closed on me...they promise to restrain me if I attempted suicide. Now I don't know what to do anymore. Everything I do goes back against me. Everything I don't do hurts me also. Everything I say is useless. I am suffering and don't know what to do despite everything I've tried.

I've taken medication, had therapy, ran away from home, stayed home from school, confronted the problem head on, cried, prayed, tried changing my attitude and looked at things optimistically, cried some more, seeked helped, poured out my heart, tried my hardest to keep fighting, etc...and so on.

Now I am really really exhausted. What else can I do? Is there any hope left? O please I feel like I am on the verge of insanity.

I don't want anymore therapists or stupid drugs or talking with close ones anymore. No one understands me or can help. Those that can help are not willing to help me.

2007-02-28 15:45:25 · 16 answers · asked by Tai 3

ok this is what happenes, when i do stuff for myself i have no problem but when i do stuff for other people (especially stuff i dont do often) i worry really bad, and over little things. i was taught how to do stuff, by my folks pointing at somthing and saying "get it done" and i would figure it out myself (i live on a farm, so i had a wide range of skills i have acquired) im still a teen. and for an example returning parts, i hate doing it cause i worry about stuff like that--once i get in the middle of things it isnt a problem and is kinda fun. i really dont like responsibilty either, if i am alone and no one is looking stuff is fine, but when there is a crowd, deadlines or other people property is on the line i worry a lot. how can i get over this??

2007-02-28 15:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5

2007-02-28 15:33:26 · 6 answers · asked by fury1162 2

Well it felt so realistic this mostly happens in my dreams and i even have dream where i dont even know these people at all. Its really random but i had a dream when i was in a expedition car with my cousins and this one guy and my uncle was driving all crazy and i kept bumping my head onto the seat infront of me and i was luaghing with that guy? what do you think it meant do you think it will happen one day or in the future?

2007-02-28 15:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by beatbox 1