This bloke I know keeps on trying to hit on every girl I get close to!
He really is trying to wind me up!
I always act the bigger, mature person and let him Try!
He always fails! No matter how much B.S he tries to tell them!
However my question is What should I do?
I am getting pised off turning the other cheek, should i teach him the lesson of his life and beat the living c4rp otta him to finally show him not to mess?
All oppinions greatly recieved
Thanks in advance!
2007-02-24 14:46:16 · 24 answers · asked by Chris W 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No don't beat him up - sh*g his mother. Men have no idea when it comes to the complexities of revenge!
2007-02-24 20:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know WHY he always fails? Because you are the more mature, cool guy that he envies and these girls like better - if you go and beat him up, you lose that upper hand. Laugh at him, he's pathetic - or you could even try sympathising with him for being such a loser - the only thing he IS actually succeeding in is winding you up - take that away, and what does he have?
2007-02-24 22:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
When you say, "get close to", I am assuming you have made some sort of progress with them and he is constantly butting in. Do you understand his motives? Is it something personal and he is trying to spoil it for you? Does he want you to fail because he doesn't want to lose you as a friend? One thing is for sure, I am afraid that he doesn't respect you. It's a kind of machismo, whatever you have, I can take it off you. You have to confront him, and don't let him laugh it off, because he is making you look small in front of your female friends. In fact, that could be his driver, he is trying to give your girl friends the impression that he is the stronger and is the alpha male. Don't listen to female advice on this point, because, unfortunately, some of them are secretly attracted by it.
2007-02-25 12:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave Mark T a thumbs up. If your getting the girls its because your not being a moron like your so called mate. Turning the other cheek..? Id rub his nose in it at every given oppurtunity. ( Subtlety is the key here, you dont want to look like a show off ) As for violence, your going to his level, playing HIS game when your winning the battles. BAD MOVE.
2007-02-24 23:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Merovingian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him to shreds with words rather than brawn. Not only will it hurt him more, but is less likely to push the girls you're close to away. However if he gets in your face to much then just butt him. A swiftly and unexpectedly broken nose ends most disputes.
2007-02-24 22:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some proof
and witnesses
and get a Harrasment
order served on him
he sounds like a big T.w.a.t
who needs to be shown how to
fuk off!
go the legal route on this
its better for you in the long-run
i can understand your wanting
to wallop him though
i would want to punch him too
if it was me he was taking libertys with
but its important to think
about all of the hassle
(law)
that rides with that option/action -first?
its not worth it really (in my opinion)
2007-02-25 04:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt, because I'm sure you'll get into legal trouble, but also you'll be the bigger man. Just because he hits on the girls your with doesnt mean they'll flirt back.
In a strange way, its a complement, because you have good taste in women.
2007-02-24 22:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by di12381 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be the kinda bloke the girl wants then she wins u win and beat him in the process and when he realises his advances dont gain but yours do he'll walk away as if beated to a pulp loooooser
2007-02-24 23:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) you're in the right section because you need mental help
2) beating someone up because he hits on a girl is moronic..
For someone who "acts the bigger mature person", your maturity went out the window. Its fair game when trying to get a girl. Deal with it - thats life!
2007-02-24 22:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Violence should always be the last resort
Just ask him point blank why he is so jealous of you and why he wants to walk in your shadow all the time?
Always try to fight mentally rather than physically
2007-02-25 00:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bruce L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋