I wonder whether it's really true that a guy become so mean to a girl to whom he likes. I have a really bad experience about this guy whom I met due to my job. he was so mean--verbally attacking me, taking every single word personally, interpreting in twisted way, etc. We've hardly known each other before we actually met.
Also, in my previous experience, I saw a simillar case like this; I was attending a technical training class, and there was a female IT person from Finland. A lecturer was an English man, and he was so mean to her. Each time he threw a hard question, he picked this finnish lady up, asked to answer, and made her embarrassed when she couldn't answer it. Surely, they'd not known each other before the class.
So, both guys I mentioned above, did they somehow like me(I'm a girl, too) or the finnish lady? And, they took behavior opposing against their feelings?? Or, did they really hate us? People can hate people at the moment they see them for the first time??
2007-02-24 14:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i know that as a guy it is hard to deal with those types of feelings because you arent supposed to talk about them and be sissy. we just dont know how to react or what to say and do so we get uncomfortable. we shut it all out so we dont have to deal with it. everybody is more rude when they are uncomfortable and unsure of themselves.
2007-02-24 16:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by destructo_mystique_shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is acting like that he has serious issues and I wouldn't want to get involved with them. It just shows what they are capable of behaving like. But it also is very possible not to like some on sight. I do that with both members of the sex sometimes, I just see someone and dint like them for no good reason.
2007-02-24 14:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. They could be doing it to get attention from you, but they obviously aren't doing it in a good manner. I, personally, never did things of that matter, but some people think it's how to get someone to notice you. Don't pay any attention to them, at all.
But, then again, they could hate you, but I'd think the reason above would be more suitable. Who knows?
2007-02-24 14:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Chainsaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't like you, men don't do that if they like a girl, unless they are crazy.
2007-02-24 14:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sick jerks and, thankfully, rare.
2007-02-24 14:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-24 14:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by caleb m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋