Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - November 2006

I'm 38 , had my tubes tied june 05.
My period was 2 weeks late --LMP was 9/30. I started spotting on Sunday am and by Weds it was gone.
Went to the doctor yesterday , their pg test was negative. He thinks it could have been a miscarriage, and that my tubes are open again. They did a blood test but today My boobs still feel heavy and are aching again. I am still waiting for the results but i know they are going to be negative since the urine tests were too.
Anyone have any advice on where i can look this stuff up ?
I have 3 other children so its not like pregnancy is a mystery to me but this all is new and SO confusing!!
Any advice at all would be appreciated.
NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE!

2006-11-16 06:48:39 · 15 answers · asked by Lily18 5

i have been with my bf for a yr and a half...we have sex lots...but i dont seem to be getting pregnant...not that im complaing but......im not on any form of birth control..and still not pregnant...and its not him because he already has a kid...wat to do...wats wrong wit me????????????????

2006-11-16 06:43:15 · 16 answers · asked by nawti969 2

2006-11-16 06:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by christie 1 1

I personally don't think so, but I'm wondering why people would think it is.

2006-11-16 06:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Matt S 2

Cant a mom do justice working after the maternity leave of 3 months? How come Dad's never take a long break to take care of the Kids? Why does the society expect the Mom to make that adjustment?

2006-11-16 06:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by nicegal 1

What do yall believe the ideal age to have a baby is?

I would say be married and have a child at 25 is my goal...lol

2006-11-16 06:09:11 · 13 answers · asked by ::star:: 1

I am thinking about adopting a baby from China, and want to know if any one has tried to adopt a baby from another country and what type of difficulties you encountered.

2006-11-16 05:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost a great bit of self=esteem, and I'm working hard on getting it back by working out and stuff. Also, I became a little bit more jealous too-SUCKS! Please share any details of how you felt, how to feel better, or just anything you want. I'm working hard on getting myself back to normal. Thanks!

2006-11-16 05:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by LiSa B 3

ive been on the pill for about a week can you still ovulate the first month. i think my ovulation day was monday or tuesday and i had unprotected sex what are the chances of getting pregnant?

2006-11-16 05:36:25 · 8 answers · asked by apeyhen17 1

I have a 4 year old daughter
Im still with her father but we are not married
I just started a new job 6 months ago and he's not working
Were also a looking for an apartment
I dont want my children to be to far apart in age
under the circumstances what should I do?

2006-11-16 05:19:56 · 13 answers · asked by SJNYC 1

2006-11-16 05:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by mam m 1

My fiance and I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs. We also live together. He has an 8 yr old girl whom I love like my own. SInce day one I have taken an active role in her life. I go to school functions like open house, I help with homework, etc but I also take part in the discipline. Moreso now that we are getting married and I will soon be her stepmom. She and I have a wonderful relationship but I have never and would never try to replace her mother. We have custody of her 3 1/2 days a week. Recently she asked me to sign up to be a room mother for her class because I dont work. Unfortunately I missed the signup because we never got the memo from school telling when it was. Last week her mother called me up screaming and cussing me out about being too active in her daughters life. I tried to explain to her that I'm not just some girlfriend that could be gone any day. My fiance and I are getting married next march. I told her that I am trying to be an active part of her daughters life.

2006-11-16 04:53:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in northern California and am seeking sole custody of my two chidren, ages 5 &7. I have no idea where their "father" is nor do I want one. Does anybody know how long there has to be no contact for or any websites with good info about this and the court process. Thank you for any help.

2006-11-16 04:40:22 · 1 answers · asked by lisa h 4

I just found out my baby girl (she's 25) is pregnant she was going to wait until 30 but it happened and I am so happy but still always felt like she's still my baby. We love her and will support her emotionally through this but being the last and the one the whoel family doted on the past few years will she feel left out if we are to crazy about her baby. I have 5 other grandkids and Love them all to death but don't get to see them as often as I'd like my youngest has always joked that don't worry mom when i have a baby you can see them as much as you want especially when they need changed. ( I think she's joking about that one I know she will be a great mom) she lives close to us

2006-11-16 04:21:43 · 2 answers · asked by katlady927 6

I really like to put some Baby Einstein music to my baby, but I notice that he moves a lot during some songs, could the sound be too loud? Could it be that he's just enjoying it?
What's your opinion?? :-)
Thanks!!

2006-11-16 04:09:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

monday i spotted for not even an hour just noticed it but if figured that was ovulation ive only been on the pill for about a week can i still ovulation? i had unprotected sex on tuesday?

2006-11-16 03:24:35 · 3 answers · asked by apeyhen17 1

i was given one over 8 years ago with my first child by my health vister, but have fogotton what it was called. its something like 0 - 9 months. I gave mine away

2006-11-16 02:33:07 · 8 answers · asked by dreams 6

What could be going on?
my period for october should have started on the 20th but i didn't start till the 24th and last one day...when would i ovulate this month? i am confused. is there a possibility that i am already pregnant because i am tired all the time, been sick to my stomach alot, breast are tender to the touch around the nipples. i took 2 hpt and they were both neg. i can't see the doctor for 2 more weeks

2006-11-16 02:05:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't like having to remeber the pill everyday. I have heard the the ring falls out. My husband found the IUD very uncomfortable. The shot made me gain weight and VERY moody. I have heard the patch falls off. AAAHHH!!! Someone please help.

2006-11-16 01:59:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl I know who is pregnant and due in about three months. she smokes weed which of course everyone is against but know on can get her to quite. the doctor told her if theres drugs in the babies system that it will get taken away, but i guess she doesn't believe they'll test her baby. Do anyone now if it's manatory to drug test newborns in th U.S. Hopefully something will get her to snap out of it and stop before it's too late.

2006-11-16 01:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anyone 4

For instance, a pregnant woman decided to have an amniocentesis. The result reveals that her baby has abnormalities. if you will be a mother and father of this unborn baby with abnormalities will you accept the situation? why or why not?

2006-11-16 00:40:46 · 14 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1

I had a very light period on the 3rd. Four days later I spotted very light pink discharge, slight cramps, nothing to take anything for, mild headaches( I suffer from migraines) and now nothing. I not due for a period until the 27th. Went to the doctor yesterday and she wouldn't give me any migraine meds until I get my period in 2 weeks because she thinkd I could be pregnant and its too early to test. With both of my children, I had a light period like the one I had early this month, and I was pregnant. I don't have any breast soreness anymore, just the tingleing. But I've been nauseaus since Friday. What do you think it could be?

2006-11-15 23:53:10 · 5 answers · asked by Queen 5

sleep with her 16 year old boyfriend they sleep in her moms house in the same bed I say thats wrong is it ?

2006-11-15 22:49:08 · 23 answers · asked by sonoftazont 3

can you just fool around with a guy but not have the guys part get contact inside the women, can she get preg.?

2006-11-15 22:43:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nelly has struggled so long with pneumonia, I never imagined she could reach one. Its a miracle to me. I just thank God for her. Can anyone send me (on behalf of Nelly) a beautiful ecard-thanking God also.

2006-11-15 22:24:08 · 2 answers · asked by shiko 2

2006-11-15 18:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my freind with benefits and i were messing around ... and usually we keep things to a boundary ... but last saturday ...... umm 5 days ago .... he rubbed against me ... we were both naked from the waist down ... and he kind of put his penis um next to my vagina but im sure he didnt go in . im worried as hell because i wasnt on birthcontrol and he wasnt wearing a condom . i havent spoken to him about this yet because we havent had time to talk ... id appreiciate if you guys could help me out .... i seriously cant handle being pregnant im only 15 1/2 !!!!!

help

2006-11-15 17:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by - 1

I didn't fall on my stomach, I'm 12 weeks pregnant and fell flat on my butt. It was kind of a hard fall, the pain shot up my back. If my stomach had been touched at all I'd be at the ER already, but it wasn't. Should I go though, or do yall think the babys fine since it wasnt my stomach?

2006-11-15 17:26:02 · 10 answers · asked by Kallie 4

Please tell me what they said when you told them your story. Did they try to get you help or arrest/punish the abuser?

2006-11-15 15:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by PEACEintheWORLD 3

I had my son nine months ago. Luckily I basically lost all of my pregnancy weight shortly after having him so I could still fit into my pre-pregnancy clothes. I love looking nice and feeling pretty--and I do but I have not bought a single new shirt, pair of jeans, or shoes since he was born. I have no clue why but I just cannot shop for myself anymore--where as my husband can (for himself) and does all the time. I really know I should be getting some new clothes but it's really hard for me. Has anyone else gone through this? What did you do to feel better about wanting something new just for yourself?

2006-11-15 15:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by .vato. 6