i have been with my bf for a yr and a half...we have sex lots...but i dont seem to be getting pregnant...not that im complaing but......im not on any form of birth control..and still not pregnant...and its not him because he already has a kid...wat to do...wats wrong wit me????????????????
2006-11-16 06:43:15 · 16 answers · asked by nawti969 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
one year of trying without birth control + no results = you must see a doctor.. because this is the definition of infertility in medicine..
2006-11-16 06:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by rseny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should be absolutely sure you can care for a baby. Have you finished school and do you have a job that will give you the financial security for it? Having a child is difficult and expensive.
You need to be familiar with your cycle and have sex a lot during your fertile time (8 to 16 days after your period starts). If you've been trying for over a year with no luck it's time to see a doctor and/or fertility specialist.
2006-11-16 06:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say if you are not getting pregnant within 1 year to go see a fertlilty specialist to see if something is wrong.Some women have a problem getting pregnant on their own and need to start on fertlilty drugs-but that is only if you really want kids.many women on those drugs get pregnant with multiples-as many as 6 sometimes.They can also try invetro-fertilization where they mix the egg and sperm in a dish and inplant it in your uterus-this does not always take though-it may take many times.Good luck!
2006-11-16 06:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worring to much, stop thinking about it and maybe something will happen.
If you are a teen or a person that is not yet stable, wait until your older married and stable. Babies need alot of time, care, and love. They need: diapers, wipes, food, formula, clothes,onsies, socks, pants, shirts, sweaters, jackets, coats, shoes, lotion, baby wash, powder, diaper rash cream, nose drops, gas drops strollers, cribs, sheets, pillows, bed sets, medicine, doctors visits, toys, learning, daycare,and much, much more. Think about affording all this cause it wont all come from a baby shower. Babies are a full time and three part time jobs, if you like working that many jobs than, maybe you do have time and are stable enough. Just think first, maybe you should wait.
2006-11-16 06:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by brittany S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your timing could be one thing. Second, does he want a child. Perhaps you should think about being married first. Not that I am one to talk, but take if from someone who wishes she was married first. It is very hard for a child to grow up without her parents being in one house. Think about your relationship first before taking a step towards a child. Not to be mean; but he has a child prior and he is not with the person you should take the time to ask yourself why?
2006-11-16 06:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by pattiof 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make an appontment with your doctor to discuss the matter. It could be that your body is not ready to have a baby. My dad's current wife was told in your young adult hood that she couldn't have kids because she wasn't conceiving. In her late 40's she had two sons....your body does what it wants really.
Also, your BF could have a low sperm count. If you do want to conceive, make sure he is eating right, wearing boxers and he may have his sperm count checked also.
2006-11-16 06:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could just not be at the right time i know doctors don't consider it a problem and won't see you till you've been seriously trying for one yr maybe his sperm count is low bc you have sex lots lol if you think youd like to start trying i suggest you start taking prenatal vitamins the folic acid will help or you can just buy folic acid but i think its more expensive
2006-11-16 06:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your using a condom thats probably why you havent gotten pregnant yet, but those dont always work. if your worried i would go to a health clinic and have yourself tested to see if your still capable of getting pregnant. i know you dont want to have a kid right now, but i can see why this would worry you. its fine now that your not getting pregnant yet, but im sure later on in life your going to want to
so i would go to a health clinic or your regular doctor and talk to them about it and they'll help point you in the right direction of where to find out
good luck!
2006-11-16 06:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm trying to figure out the same thing about myself, except I've been having unprotected sex for like 4 years! And I don't know if it's me or him cuz we both haven't had kids, so if you get any intelagent answers let me know.
2006-11-16 06:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by StonerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. sometimes you don't get pregnant. you can have 10000000000 of unprotected sex sessions and still not get pregnant and nothin be wrong with you. its just not the right time. god will give you a child when its the right time.
2006-11-16 06:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋