my freind with benefits and i were messing around ... and usually we keep things to a boundary ... but last saturday ...... umm 5 days ago .... he rubbed against me ... we were both naked from the waist down ... and he kind of put his penis um next to my vagina but im sure he didnt go in . im worried as hell because i wasnt on birthcontrol and he wasnt wearing a condom . i havent spoken to him about this yet because we havent had time to talk ... id appreiciate if you guys could help me out .... i seriously cant handle being pregnant im only 15 1/2 !!!!!
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2006-11-15 17:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by - 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sure you can! And people can live in space! Look, anything is possible! This world is nuts, insane! Have you looked at the news? There are people calling themselves peaceful Christians all the while they bomb, murder, rape and pillage other people. Don't base your actions on what is possible or not. It doesn't matter. You need to evaluate what you're doing.
Your body parts, which are designed to be used by a male, are made to produce babies. If you don't want babies, don't let males use your parts. Sure, there it is possible to have sex without making babies, but save it for when you don't care if you have one. Save it for when your older. Or for when you have the money and time for abortions. Because the life of a child whose parents didn't even intend for him to live is just miserable.
All you get out of sex is pleasure. Have you ever heard the phrase 'spoiled'? Its what a child is when they get everything they want. Spoiled brats are the most ignorant, the most hated people of our society.
Not that you shouldn't have sex, it's ok to do. But you should remember that you're really just beginning your life and there is a lot more to come.
2006-11-17 15:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Empty Skies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unlikely - but you COULD be pregnant. If any semen had come out of his penis - and it was close enough to your vagina - the sperm CAN manage to make their way up to your eggs.
If your periods are regular - and it was about 14 or 15 days since you started your last period - the chances are even higher.
Of course you can't handle being pregnant at 15 and 1/2! And that is exactly why - at that age - you should be "handling" having a penis near your vagina!
Speaking from experience here. I got pregnant at 15 - had a baby at 16 - and gave it up for adoption. Please - stop pretending to be an adult when you're not. And - if you're just too hormonal to stop having sex (or major hook ups) then carry a condom - or get on the pill - or something. And remember - there are STDs out there too.
2006-11-16 01:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you retarded, if there was no penetration then there is no way you could be pregnant. Unless he was cumming all over you vagina and some of it magically crawled into your vagina. And what the hell ever heard of buying some condoms and just getting down to business, What kind of guy is this that he just fools around with his pants off. And what the hell you are 15 yrs old what do you know about friends with benefits. Quit messing around and get on birth control.
2006-11-16 01:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by solid132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15, what are you doing "messing around" with a "friend with benefits"? Naked from the waist down? You are headed for big trouble young lady. Where are your parents? You need much more supervision than you are getting.
If you can't handle being pregnant, stop this behavior because it is only a matter of time before that is exactly what happens.
2006-11-16 01:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets just say there is a possibility that his sperm stilled reached your vagina, anything is possible. Even if you didn't have actual sex and since you're only 15 and seems as if you're on the verge of being sexually active, you both naked from the waist down proved that, get on birth control, you can never be too safe. Trust me you wouldn't want to get pregnant right now so don't do things that would lead to that.
2006-11-16 01:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It’s highly unlikely that you are if there was no penetration. Please remember that the only birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence. A similar thing happened to a friend of mine and she was so freaked out she got on the pill "just in case". Might be something for you to check into. There are places like Planned Parenthood and other places that you can get birth control free or relatively cheap. I would definitely talk to him about it so he's more careful next time. Be safe.
2006-11-17 12:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably ,or more likley are not unless he seeped some semen into your vagina or on the side of it, then thats the time to wory other than that i dont see y you would be. what the heak were the two of you thinking at 15 years of age though?? thats a little too young to start stripping!!
2006-11-16 01:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though the probabilities are small that you can get pregnant while messing around, YOU CAN GET PREGNANT! So, stop messing around and make sure you both use lots of protection.
2006-11-16 01:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact of the matter is, if his weiner touched your vagina there is a chance your pregnant. Even if it didn't go in. If any sperm got in there you are probably pregnant. Sperm will hunt you egg like any well trained predator. They have one purpose in life, and that is to hunt down your egg and fertilize it.
2006-11-16 01:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your story, there is no ejaculation, so NO you are not getting pregnant just because he rubbed against yours.. you are just worried because you have'nt got enough knowledge about getting pregnant.. read more so that you will know the answer.
2006-11-16 01:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by jamie anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋