I have been married for 1 year, and I am pregnant with my first child. About 4 years ago I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, so I have a lot of widespread pain, and it gets pretty tiring and painful sometimes.My husband does not want me to work, it's not a controling thing, it's just he is from England and finds he has to support not only me, but his divorced mom, and his sister. I have just finished up getting my masters degree. He wants me to not work, but I can't be a houswife, because with the fibro, it's hard sometimes to clean, he dosn't even want me to clean, and hired someone to come in everyday, now he wants to hire a nanny for the baby, because I need a full nights sleep for the fibro, and frequently need to take naps during the day or rest. When I am able to I like to volenteer in the community and help people out.
Should I get a nanny? I just feel so worthless right now, because there is not much for me to do?
2006-07-20
20:02:25
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