Pregnancy & Parenting - 29 December 2007

i recently found my biofather and he has asked me to call his mother 'grandma'. now thats all fine and good for a couple of reasons
1. she is fantastic, i love her and she accepts me as one of her own, her words not mine.
2. i have no grandparents left, so the respect issue i have about calling him 'dad' wont apply to her. no one will be hurt but an 'extra' grandma' being around

now the question is, if you were the family of a long lost relative (NO ONE in this family knew of me for 35 years, i just showed up in his life one day) they dont know me from eve, would it be upsetting to you to hear this person calling your mother/grandma, whatever "grandma"
it seems almost disrespectful of me to use this term so early in our relationship. yes she is biologically related, but still a stranger.

whats your thoughts, am i being overly senstive or am i being respectful?

im so confused

2007-12-29 13:43:41 · 27 answers · asked by rachael 5 in Adoption

Our assignment when we come back to school, January 3, is too "have" a child. I am paired with this really mean, weird boy, We are having a daughter. Her name is going to be MiShae Lee. The teacher chose it, it was the last "girl" so he named it after his daughter. "Joe" was so mad. He said MiShae was a stripper name. I happen to like the name MiShae and Michaela. I was offended. What do you think of think of the name MiShae?
<3 Calivi

2007-12-29 13:42:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

my last period started on the 4th of dec. my hubby and i have been trying to conceive. when would be the earliest a test could be positive?

2007-12-29 13:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by I love my little Madelynn 4 in Pregnancy

my baby girl is due in May
and I have been set on Hayley Nichole
because the both honor family members.
I am certain Hayley is going to be the first name
so there is no changing that.
but then i was thinking about Hayley Amber.
what does everyone think of it?
I still really think she is going to be Hayley Nichole tho.


so which one do you like better,
Hayley Nichole or Hayley Amber?


Thanks bunches =]

2007-12-29 13:37:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

I am very new to this site and for the life of me can't figure out how to respond to everyone other than rate a top answer. My husband is going to help me to figure it al out later. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has answered my questions and provided helpful information. We tried a Dr. Brown's bottle and he took a full feed for the first time in 6 weeks and latched back on, etc. He kept it down and was happy. I know we have a long road ahead of us, but I thank you all for support and the information. I am going to check with Dr., this week about formula. FIngers crossed he grows out of this quickly. Thanks again.

2007-12-29 13:36:51 · 4 answers · asked by liesa90 3 in Newborn & Baby

2007-12-29 13:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive

My daugthter's name is Talon Mackenzie. I hope people dont think it's too boyish. What do you think?

2007-12-29 13:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

Just curious if it's even worth packing my own pj's in my bag and how many of you did pack your own but didn't even bother with them?

2007-12-29 13:34:06 · 25 answers · asked by Jem 6 in Pregnancy

is nail polish bad to use on a 11 month old just for one special day, as long as u make sure she dont put her fingers in her mouth?

2007-12-29 13:31:09 · 27 answers · asked by hotty 5 in Toddler & Preschooler

2007-12-29 13:31:06 · 20 answers · asked by Happy Angel 2 in Pregnancy

I'm serious, I'm not being judgemental. What goes through someone's mind while they're belting a child with a strap or something?
I'm all for strict and consistant discipline, and I've no objection whatsoever to a smack on the bottom or a tap on the hand (I've done it myself on a couple of occasions), but belting?
Your thoughts?

2007-12-29 13:29:17 · 48 answers · asked by ♥♥Mum to Superkids Baby on board♥♥ 6 in Parenting

All of my family and friends and even my daughter's doctor say she needs to be sleeping all the way through the night, like 10 hours without waking. She is breastfed and usually wakes up once to eat in the night. Does this mean I am doing something wrong? She will go to bed at 9:30 PM and wake at 3 AM, nurse, go back to sleep and sleep until 8:00 or 8:30 AM.

2007-12-29 13:29:00 · 18 answers · asked by Ava's Mama 3 in Newborn & Baby

First off, I am NOT preganent. But, I am wondering what are some cute names that begin with these letters:
E- Besides Emily
T- Besides Tessa and Taylor
A- Besides Allison
P- Besides Peyton

*Optional: Middle names to go with the names above/ the names you chose
Thanks

P.S. : No websites please!

2007-12-29 13:24:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

I have two the first was that I did not want to be a doctor anymore. My hole life they pushed me and i thought i wanted to be a doctor then when i went to college i realised that was not for me. I felt like i was letting them down by telling them this. They were a little disappointed but they took it well
The second was that i was getting married with or with out thier permission. They loved my girlfriend now my wife but thought i was to young. I was 22 we had been dating since 19.. I said i did not care but i loved her and that we were getting married. We eloped and that was that. My mom and wife are best friends now. She calls to talk to my wife and not me some times. They got over it

2007-12-29 13:24:22 · 30 answers · asked by Big Daddy R 7 in Parenting

2007-12-29 13:24:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

2007-12-29 13:22:09 · 41 answers · asked by maristabell 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

What do you think of these names for a girl:
Alynn Mikal (after my father)
Kameryn Melise
Kylar Jayce

For a boy:
Jaxon Nolan
Evan Kingston
Malachi Jai

We want contemporary or Bible names suggestions welcome

2007-12-29 13:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by Pregnant Mama 2 in Baby Names

OK some people just being PATHETIC!!!!!!!!!! no offense....the show is not getting canceled

everyon is like, ' on the commerical for the movie' goodbye zoey? ' ( NOTICE THE QUESTION MARK!!!!!! ) you can see her stomach a little bit fatter already '

geez some ppl are STUPID. they ALREADY recorded the 4th season LAST YEAR! the shows that air on TV are NOT LIVE!

so, the show is probably NOT getting canceled.

in the movie, ' goodbye zoey? ' notice the QUESTION MARK in the movie's title, zoey finally finds out chase loves her. NOW, she comes BACK to PCA, and THAT begins the 4th season. with zoey KNOWING that chase loves her.

then, by the time the WHOLE 4th season is shown, Jaime would have had her kid, maybe post pone the show for a few months. then start recording again!

sorry im not trying to sound rude. but some people need to use common sense for once.

does anyone know what im saying? do u think its getting canceled?

2007-12-29 13:20:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

**Please don't criticize my spelling.

Dezirae Jaylee Faith A----
Brooklyn Railey Faith A----
Audrina Railey Faith A----

I love all 3....I have two boys already Dawon and Damareon so I like the D but am willing to change this one. My step dad, who raised me, is named Ray and
Railey- My step dad Ray and my Grandmas middle name Lee
Jaylee- My real dads middle name plus my grandmas middle name.
If I go with Dezirae she will be named after all 3.
The others I just like the name. I love Brooklyn I don't know why...just love it! And Audrina because she could go by Audri-which I love, Dreena, or Rena....

Tell me your opinions!!!

2007-12-29 13:17:15 · 24 answers · asked by mommyx3 3 in Baby Names

Whether it be a personality trait, or purely physical, what is your best quality?

2007-12-29 13:16:50 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

2007-12-29 13:12:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

my son is 7 and my daughter is 10. I'm thinking it is soon time to let them bath seperately. At first, I thought this was a great way to save on hot water and bubble soap. But, since I am making a little extra cash at he restaurant were i am waitressing, i think it is time for them to bath seperately. Both kids are really good and i dont think they will drown if left alone in the tub. HELP!

2007-12-29 13:08:28 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

I don't know if him being mixed has anything to do with it. The only place he smells bad is his head. He is only 14 weeks old and has smelled bad since birth. I know this sounds bad, but I really want to know. I can't find anything on the internet about it. I am embarrasses to ask the doctor, but I think I will his next visit.

2007-12-29 13:08:26 · 17 answers · asked by suzi Q 1 in Newborn & Baby

Could you please rate these? they are my friends names.

Jessica Lynn
Marissa Leanne
Emily Anne
Hollyn Rose
Christopher Lee
Michael Stewart
Mielie Raye (Pronounced Miley)
Robert Lee
Allen Daniel
Mikayla Shea (Shay)
Rebecca Rosa Marie (She has 2 middle names)
Alicia Marie
Samantha Amanda
DayeAnna Marica (Muh Rees Uhh)
Leigh Denika (Lay Duh Neek Uhh)
Kimberly Sue
CarrieAnna Lucille

2007-12-29 13:07:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

i want to know is sex safe after my wife gave birth to my baby bout 1 week.

2007-12-29 13:03:53 · 23 answers · asked by god of sex 1 in Pregnancy

diane and leanne

or

yesha and meg(short for megan)

2007-12-29 13:03:22 · 73 answers · asked by ALESANA 7 in Baby Names

I'm asking about ordinary people with certain personality characteristics, not criminals.

2007-12-29 13:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I have extreamly hairy legs and my mom won't let me shave!!!She says i am too young.I have this feeling that everybody is looking at my legs and then making fun of me behind my back!!Almost all the girls in my class shave their legs so it is not fair to me.Please help.

2007-12-29 13:00:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

I've noticed a lot of questions where a mom or dad is complaining about their parents not watching their kids 'enough.' When did it become a grandparent's responsiblity to watch their grandkids? I've also noticed many complain when they have to pay their parents. Would a person not pay a babysitter? What makes our parents any different? I'm sorry this just bugs me. I pray to God that my kids never expect me to watch their kids! Of course, I will watch them but it shouldn't be something that grandparents feel they HAVE to do.

2007-12-29 12:58:08 · 27 answers · asked by Alexis 1 in Parenting

My two daughters, who just turned 18 & are seniors in high school, left to go snowboarding/tubbing with a couple friends yesterday morning. One of them got her wisdom teeth out a week ago and is still on painkillers. I told her not to snowboard and she agreed. They called me when they go there to tell me they'd be home around 9pm. They walked in the door at 915 yesterday and the one who just got her wisdom teeth out had her arm wrapped and in a sling and said to me, "Sorry, I snowboarded. We have to go to the doctors on Monday to get a cast."
I am furious over the fact that NEITHER of them called me when they went to hospital (how they filled out papers is beyond me) and that she snowboarded anyway. My husband on the other hand, is just glad she's ok and has moved on so we've yet to decide what to do.
How would you feel in this situation?

2007-12-29 12:57:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting