I am a full tiem step mother, and have raised my stepduaghters since they were 3 and 4 years old. the bio mom has popped in and out a few times, but hasnt really seen them for about 6 years! she is 37,000 in arrearages. and the girls have had to see a psychiatrist on a few occations because she decided to dissappear. i know the laws, and know that im not their bio mom, but i do think that as far a kids go love conquers blood. the bio mom is now deciding that she wants to become a part of thier lives again..im scared of the heartbreak it is going to cause them in case she decides that this isnt the thing. and im scared of loosing them to her also..ive spent alot of time getting them to where they are now, and love them as my own. what would you all do??
2006-08-14
10:19:32
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mommyof5
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